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PWEESE!!!! NEED HELP QUICK!!!

2007-02-15 00:41:59 · 17 answers · asked by MiXeD-ChK 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

17 answers

Dump him first.

2007-02-15 00:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 2 0

What happened to bring this about? Figure that out and try to ease the situation by talking it out, sex won't do it permanently, sorry. If things are really bad then you're just going to have to give him some space and time to think things out. I know this is going to be hard for you but, being understanding and open-minded to what's going on with him could help a lot for you both. In the meanwhile try to find out if this hurt and pain you're feeling is worth going through even though it will make you a stronger person, sister. I hope things work out for you both but, it is up to your Higher Power anyway, you have no control over someone else's feelings or actions and when come to grasp that fact you need not worry anymore. Good luck!

2007-02-15 08:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0 0

OH Girl you know what sometimes its hard to prepare for a thing like this but the best approach i think is to be open and upfront about the situation. Ask him if he thinks there are any problems in your relationship or what he see's for you in the future. Ask him if youre doing something wrong and if there is anyway to fix it. If youre in love thats the best thing to do because thenits not too late and you can fix it. If you dont see yourself with this guy forever then maybe you should be assertive and brake up with him.

2007-02-23 02:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by ~*BabyGirlpinky06*~ 2 · 0 0

There's really nothing you can do to keep him from breaking up with you. It's rare for a guy to have something set in his mind and then go back on it. My best advice to you, even though it may hurt, is to break up with him first. If you do that, he'll be the one to look stupid instead of you. But please make sure you find out truthfully if he's going to break up with you. You don't want to dump him just to find that he really loved you and nothing like that planned! That would really suck! <3

2007-02-15 08:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Sunshine 2 · 0 0

Its important to know why you think he is going to dump you, before we can decide how to prevent it... If a guy is worth your time, love, affection, and commitment he'll give the same to you, show you respect. No man is worth chasing or fighting for- NO MAN. Let him want you and if he doesnt- too bad- his loss

2007-02-23 08:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

if you think your boyfriend is going to dump you..for whatever reasons..
those reasons could be the answer you are looking for...and you could turn it around
doing anything kinda extreme is wrong and/or suggestive sexual stuff is disrespect,exploitation..degrading.., and doing so could turn things really ugly believe me.
and to just remind...we have pride for good reasons..and to keep it just right is how its supposed to be..not too hight,not too low..

it is not love if there are no problems.
good luck...

2007-02-15 09:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by J o h n 3 · 0 0

I'm sorry, but there is really nothing you can do about it. whether you dump him first or he dumps you first, you guys will both be ending the relationship either way. I'm sorry.

2007-02-22 23:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by Lia Danielle 2 · 0 0

to prevent it:
try to bake him cookies
make his favorite toy-handmade
try to find a new bf first so if he dumps u u have another one
just ignore it

2007-02-15 08:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by KatieMinami 1 · 0 0

There's nothing you can do if he wanna get out
of the relationship, there's no way you can force
him..
But please, don't beg him , , it won't help . .,
you'll only be degrading yourself.

If you can't be strong,, then you can act strong..
Never show him it's hurting,, just act that
everything is ok.

You might be wrong, you can also be right, the
thing is you're not sure,

So, in case you're right, just say, I been thinking
of breaking up with you.. don't you know ? so thanks,

and yes, one thing I wanna tell you, don't hide ,,
I won't chase you.. (tell him)

So chin up,, girl . .boyz will chase you. . .

2007-02-15 09:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0 0

Ask him if he is ok
then find out whats wrong
if it is something you can fix, do
if not, like the other girl said, dump him first

2007-02-15 08:47:28 · answer #10 · answered by faye 2 · 0 0

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