well, i'll tell u my problem.
im 18 years old, and turning into 19 on march. and im SINGLE. im single since i was born, if u know wut i mean. i've never been in any realtionship, i've never had a boyfriend, so i've never gone out on a date. that is SAD!
i dont know what is wrong with me, BECAUSE im pretty sure im not ugly, i mean my friends and my family say that im pretty. im a nice girl and an easy-going person, that explains why i have a lot of friends. and it is not like im just sitting around waiting my prince charming to come. i go to parties.
it is like the boys only see me as a friend, not as a girl they wanna hook-up with. and why is that?? i sometimes envy my girlfriends, they make-up, they break-up. i wanna be like them. i've never had love confession from boy either. that's pathethic.
one thing, please dont write: be yourself.
im sick of that. i've always been myself.
pleasseee answer. i dont wanna be alone in this huge world.
2007-02-15 00:40:09 · 26 answers · asked by sasha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sure you have many friends including boys. Why don't you ask that question to one the boys who you trust and will not make a fun of it. The best answer will come from one of your friends. None of us here Know you personally, so it is very hard to tell you the reason.
Good Luck
2007-02-15 00:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by Pinar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I didn't think there were other girls like me. I know exactly what you mean. I've never had a boyfriend either, but I'm pretty and I have a fun personality. I think that some people think that I'm stand-offish, but I'm really just shy around people I don't know that well.
It has always bothered me because I see ugly chicks getting a lot of attention from guys and I wonder what the hell I have to do to get a boyfriend. A lot of people will tell you that you don't need a guy to make you feel good about yourself, but those people don't get it. It really starts to eat away at your self-esteem because you wonder "What's wrong with me?". I think the best thing for you to do would be to have your friends set you up with guys that they know. I'm sorry I can't give you any better advice since I'm in the same boat.
2007-02-15 08:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have a boyfriend til I was around that age either. I was sort of the "ugly duckling" in high school, I was heavier and somewhat shy. But I really sort of came into my own in college, I dropped around 40 pounds went down to a size 4 but kept most of the chest and suddenly I was a guy magnet. But with all this attention came a lot of guys that were absolute wastes of time. Guys will come calling eventually, just be patient...but don't be tempted to leap on the first one that comes around, if one comes around more will too. Expand your social circle, go places you don't ordinarily go, call up a few friends you don't usually hang out with, maybe your love life is a little stale because you are around the same guys a lot(I've found that to be true when I went to parties). Maybe these new guys will jump on what the old ones were missing! If you're feeling really bold, go stag to a bar or party--guys are certain to come your way. Good luck!
2007-02-15 08:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by justpeachee22 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hey if I were living where you live I d be happy to be your bf . But that does not mean you are not normal . You are very normal .And you do not waste your time always looking for a bf around . One day you will find a good one I think . Take care. There is nothing wrong with you . You are not lonely . You have a home a family and lots of friends . You just do not have a bf and that does not mean you are lonely . You are social and I think healthy too. So that is not a pathetic situation . You will not be single till the end of your life you are very young .
2007-02-15 08:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by xeibeg 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sasha, I can understand what you are feeling, but don't worry it will come the day this boy will tell you he loves you. I believe you are yourself and pretty and a beautiful smile on your face.
There is no problem.
Personally I was 19 as I had my first flirt.
Now I'm 42 and single since three years (my husband died in 2004). Don't be sorry for me the life is too short to loose time for regret or expectations.
But in the two last years I told two men that I love them and both replied they are not loving me in this way. That is as sure as the sun shows up every morning.
You know what? I'm still happy; they do not love me but I still can love them and this feeling is wonderful and can not been taken away. Sincerely I do know how of us three (them or me) is the most happy. That is me : I love two wonderfully men. hehehe
You are never alone as long as you love, your heart is full of love.
However, I wish you to find very soon someone to love you back -
because that is the most beautiful event in a life; loving and been loved back.
Love and be happy,
active dreamer
2007-02-15 09:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by active dreamer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You only 19 and why do you want to go with the rest of the sheep? Maybe you are a bit overpowering and desperate to guys just so you will go out with them?
Don't just hang around with people who are already couples and have partners you need to find people who are looking too like you.
You are not that old to be worrying this much.
2007-02-15 08:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
its not sad it just means that you have been living your life and too busy which is good. not being in relationships means that you have had chance to develop without the input of someone you are trying to impress. so when you finally meet someone you will know who you are as a person and what you want out of life. it does not mean that you will never have a boyfriend or husband if that's what you want it just means that your priorities have been different.
2007-02-15 08:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. It will for you when you lest expect it. Maybe your trying to hard, some guys don't like that. I have been single for the last few years and and having the best time of my life. Enjoy it while you can.
2007-02-15 08:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by lagirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
love works in mysterious ways you will find the right guy for you then you wont be so alone you just have to wait you cant rush love if you do you will get hurt, its not your fault that you have never had a bf but you just have to be patient don't do anything you'll regret, be smart. well good luck
2007-02-15 08:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by yoshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'll b d1 at your house door..............just kiddin' with u. Don't worried 'bout it. U r still young n' beautiful as a beautiful pearl. I'm sure there will b some1 like u secretly which u didn't notice yet.
Hope that he will show up on someday.
"I love u" Just makin' u smile once more again. Cheer it up.............u will never walk alone in a long path, even if u don't have a beau at d moment but u still have us(every1) in here 2b with u n' supportin' u.
Don't worried there is nothin' wrong with u. Is normal.
2007-02-15 09:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋