2007-02-15 00:37:58 · 15 answers · asked by shiya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it is OK and it is healthy to do so as well. Both women and men fantasize about other people and that is OK. You can't expect just because you found the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with that it means that you will never find another person attractive and not think about what that person might be like in one form or another. A priest said to me one time just because you are on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu.
2007-02-15 00:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by Duece 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, YES!
We ALL fantasize about other people, men and women, not only even when we are in close relationship but also when we are in fact making love to the love ones! And whoever claims otherwise is a liar to his/her teeth. Its normal; harmless, and in fact, healthy and spicy to the relationship.
Fantacy of this type is one extra-marrital or extra-bf-gf relationship one can and probably must have in order to enhance and strength one's relationship. We all have and that's why our relationships are either strong or weak.
Fantacy, therefore, is very common, normal and useful thing to have, provided its kept secret into your mind alone. Do not reveal it, nor demand others to tell you about theirs. You will ruin your relationship, un-neccesarily. This is an affairs which each one of us can afford to have without harming anybody else, including our own selves. And you will be a liar if you say that you never and have never fantasized about somebody else, known or imaginative. Simply, a LIAR!
If you don't fantasize, then you are either dead or not human being.
All the best!/
2007-02-15 00:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is fantasizing about other women, this usually means that something within the relationship is wrong. He may not be happy anymore, like he could be bored with his girlfriend. Why he would fantasize about other women instead of letting go of his current girlfriend, who is certain to get hurt in the end, is beyond me. <3
2007-02-15 00:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is very common for guys to do this. Even if they are married, they do not only fantasize but make out with other willing women. They said that there is nothing to lose since they are men.
2007-02-15 00:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by inchapie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most definitely! It doesn't mean you are cheating because, most people do it and sometimes it makes things better in the bedroom with your mate. Just try not to call out the wrong name and try to fantasize about the person you're with and all will be well.
2007-02-15 00:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are talking about men here! They all do it that's why they are men. I think It's got to do with a broken chroma zone
In all fairnest to the blokes haven't you done it? Girls are not Mother Teresas
He's fantasizing when he starts doing then worry.
Chill
2007-02-15 00:51:18 · answer #6 · answered by shiraz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad thing about men honey is that they are never satisified and always "fantasize" or dream about what they can't have.....if hes a real man though and he truly loves you he'll keep those fantasies to himself.
2007-02-15 00:42:57 · answer #7 · answered by solsbj 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes how much liberty should i give the one who loves me
2007-02-15 01:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by Ibredd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course!
And it's even better if you think in those other women while having sex with your girlfriend/wife!
2007-02-15 00:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by Roundup Ready 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes
2007-02-15 00:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋