I started this year at a new school (im in 11th grade) And i mey this really cute guy (12th grade) I was shocked when he told me he really liked me as i feel cute guys dont ever like me. Anyway i realized it was too good to be true when i found out he was a player. when iasked him about it he said he is a player but he doesnt play. last week he told me he dumped his girlfirend for me. On tuesday he asked me out so i sed ok. so we agreed that today at school we'd make it official. So today wen i saw him he was getting all cosy with his ex. He doesnt know i saw him with her so wen he saw me after school he asked if we still gonna be an item i sed i didnt know. i think that i can make him see the light and change. In normal situations i'd just leave the guy but he is just everything and more that i want in a guy. Am i stupid if i agree to date him???????????????????????
2007-02-15 00:34:11 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly...its a tough choice.
A lot of guys are like that in that they want more then just 1 guy and 1 girl and they feel they need to be a player to fit in. Personally i wouldn't date him. Cause you never no when you actually have changed the person...or if its just an act when there around you. Also...He's 1 year older then you, and I'm not saying thats weird that your dating someone 1 year older then you. BUT he's a senior and next year he's going to be in college and you'll still be in highschool. So you will never truly no what happens at that college, he could find someone there.
Follow your heart do what you think is right..and read this opinion.
2007-02-15 00:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by Got_a_question? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very silly if you think for one minute that you can change this guy. I was exactly the same as you, and ended up married to someone who i was madly in love with and really thought i cound change - but he never did. It started off ok, then by the end he didnt even hide the fact that he was off with other women - he knew he was cute, and that he had me wrapped round his finger - i was madly in love with him - just like you i thought that he was everything and more that i had ever wanted in someone.
Listen to your head - it is obviously telling you not to do it , or you wouldnt have asked this question.
Honey there are plenty or other guys out there much better than this one. He thinks he's cute, and plays all you girls cos you let him.
Tell him today that no you wont be going out with him. You will find your dream man that will treat you so much better than he ever will.
Good luck girl.
xx
2007-02-15 00:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by littlekitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. hun You don't want this one.Find a man That will be truthful with himself.. You are emotionally too young to understand. I know how you feel. Don't ever settle People don't change. He is also too young. You have allot to look forward to a entire life ahead of you. You cant want a guy that is misleading. You know he is you asked if he was a player and he said he doesn't play..... HE DOES You saw. Face the facts. Be honest for yourself. If you don't you could loose it all. There is plenty of time . smile Love is around the corner WHEN it finds you. Hold on and don't let go. This is not LOVE.. Love yourself and wait for another.. Don't date him please don't.
2007-02-15 00:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by luvtopaint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Krity! He's a Player. Just get out, And don't make a scene. Leave him guessing. Find someone that honestly cares for you. He may even be a lesser-looking Guy. Think of poor Jennifer Anniston.
2007-02-15 00:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can go ahead and date him with the knowledge that there is a 90% chance of getting your heart broken. this guy is at that age when he wants to play around,and because hes cute he can easily do that.either see him for the imature guy that he still is and look for someone more genuine.or date the cute guy , just cos hes cute,but with the knowledge that he will play around.its your choice
2007-02-15 00:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by rebecca k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course u r stupid... u r thinking only about the present... i just want to tell u that u have absolutely no future with that guy... he's playing with ur feelings... he is using u to spend a good time and to increase the names on his list... i am sure u wont liek ur name to appear on the list of that stupid guy...
let him come after u but dont go after him...gd luck and think well... u will suffer if u go out with him... u will feel really humiliated if he leaves u for another girl someday just like it seems he did with his ex...
2007-02-15 00:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rule #1: You cannot change other people. Only people can change themselves.
If you saw him with his ex....he has more than likely lied to you.
If he would treat her that way....he would do the same to you.
There are plenty of fish in the sea. Another young man will come along that is worthy of your company....until then, I wouldn't give this jerk the time of day.
2007-02-15 00:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would be stupid to date this guy after he was getting all cozy with his ex the day after he asked you out. If this is how he is now just imagine if he was your boyfriend. Would he dump you for the next best thing like he did to her?
2007-02-15 00:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you are stupid. What is wrong with you? How can you become so attached to someone you barely know. other than the fact he is a liar, cheater, fake. Oh sorry, go ahead I have the best response to your next question, "why did he cheat and should I try to get him back?"
2007-02-15 00:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is a player and I don't think there's any way at all that you could change him at this age. He will probably be a player until he decides to get married.
2007-02-15 00:40:28 · answer #10 · answered by Steven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋