he admited that he liked my bestfriend more then me!!! then my bestfriend likes him too but she know she should stay out of it because if she doesn't then i will MOST LIKELY be mad at her......what should i say to my boyfriend???
2007-02-15 00:21:13 · 25 answers · asked by shelby911 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't say anything, just dump him.... He'll know why.
2007-02-15 00:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These things are hard when you are stuck in the middle of it! I don't know the relationship or connection you have with your guy so its no very easy to answer these things.
You cant change peoples minds and you cant stop love or stop people from liking each other. Or they will do it behind your back or out in the open. Its hard but I would advise you to let go of him, don't be mad at any of the two. If you had to be your friend and shes the one with the boyfriend that likes you more what would you do/or would like to happen?
Even if you are mad you have all right to be!!! It hurts and burns, but in the end all happens for a reason! But rather let them do what they do in front of you than in the shadows! You cant stop it, trust on what I'm telling you!
Turn roles and relations! Just tell him what you know deep down he needs to hear!
2007-02-15 00:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Sunshine Angle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you are aware of the attraction between them and that you do not want to have to choose between them to keep them from making a mistake and hurting you but, on the other hand consider this, your best friend and your boyfriend are close friends with each other and you're in the middle of both of their love. You may come out on top with two best friends that get along perfectly! Just don't be naive, feel me?
2007-02-15 00:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not what should you say to him, rather what you should do with him. The shortest answer, move on! But have adeep and face to face chat with your best friend. Tell her that you wouldn't like to see nor feel that SHE is the cause of your break up, but also do not want to see that you stand as "bother" or a cloud over their relationship, because you value very much her friendship. In other words, you do not want to destroy your friendship with her and that He seems to be the spoiler of this. If he can manage to do this to you, today,what would stop him from doing the same thing to her in future? You, know this kind of conversation with her.
Friendship is for good, boyfriendship is an experiment. If it works, fine. Otherwise, one moves on!
Dump the bugger! He is not for you nor for her! He is for himself, the cheater!
All the best!/
2007-02-15 00:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
well what you should do is say to your boyfriend its over your not worthy and let you best gal friend take all and you can sooo find a worthy man i mean hello there is millions of guys in this world 1 wuld be yuor true guy
good luck :-)
2007-02-15 00:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by kayla g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, honey, but its most likely over if he likes your best friend better. Tell him that he hurt you, and that you are through with him for now. Tell him nicely though, you might be able to get him back if your friend doesn't get involved w/ him, and he might realize that he misses you and likes you a lot. I know it hurts, just hang in there, someone wayyy better will come along for you :)
2007-02-15 00:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by horsesareforever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's either you say nothing at all and walk, or tell him to just get out of your sight.
come on! What's there to think about again? These two people from hell are playing and having fun right on your head. Just move on. There're loads of nice guy out there who would have only you and value the relationship.
Good luck.
2007-02-15 00:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me only they went for each other.. watch out! IM WORNING U! u should break up with him! its ovious your not the one he likes the most. HE TOLD U! why should you be with someone thats like that and doesnt have his full heart to u? stupid if u asked me! stayng with him will only show him that he can do whatever he wants to u and u won do nothin
2007-02-15 00:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you ever feel like you were second choice? Your best friend should have come and told you this before your boyfriend did. You want to be with someone that you are his first choice, not second.
2007-02-15 00:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by sd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up wit him. If he liks ur friend more he'll eventually cheat on u wit her. She might no she shouldn't but might go out wit him anyway. Some girls r just lik tat. Go find urself a good man not a fake man.
2007-02-15 00:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by JoJo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For starters you can give him the finger then the main course by saying we're over! and how about a kick in the balls for dessert!
2007-02-15 00:28:26 · answer #11 · answered by eyentmd8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋