Ive known this guy for quite a few years now and i fell in love with him last year and he said he loved me too so we were a couple but i had my exams and work coming up so i broke it off! But then after a few weeks i thought he had blocked me on msn since he wasn't online for over a month, so i emailed him and he said it was his cousin who deleted his contacts and said he had sent me emails and texts which i nerver recieved! but i don't know if its true or not! He also called me blonde which in his mind means dumb so i was really put off ! but now as i speak 2 him i feel like he doesn't feel anything anymore. Last night i had a dream about him and im starting to get feeling for him and i don't know what to do?? Shall i tell him how i feel? or leave him? my mind keeps telling me he's not woth it but my heart still beats his name. I also have alot of work but i can't stop thinking about him!
P.S: Theres only 1 major problem, i met him off the net which i know is a bad thing!
2007-02-15 00:16:32 · 16 answers · asked by Pureness =) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Slow down, you're gonna be fine!
Love, real love, is a choice. A choice that two people renew everyday whether they're floating on air or n ot.
Addiction is all the pre-love chemicals that bind people to each other at first-
oxytocin, phenylethylalanine, norepinephrine, etc.
You're addicted, sweetie. and it's a healthy thing that we can become addicted, or we may never stay together long enough for the kids to become even two years old and survive...
But you have no kids, right?
So why stay attached to a man who has no respect and calls you
"blonde"?
Respect yourself. Then find the man who will also. Remember, we teach others how to treat us. If we value ourselves, others will, too.
Good luck!
2007-02-15 00:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes if we feel like someone is rejecting us makes us feel like we want them more than we really do!! I think it is time to forget him and move on!! Get out and meet more people instead of trying to find that special someone on the net. Join a club or take up a hobby, something that really interests you so that you meet people with the same interests as you!! Good luck xx
2007-02-15 00:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear 786, Exactamundo! The Net is not the place to find "Real" happiness. The power to love is in your Heart. Look there. And listen to what the thumping is saying. It's gonna point you to who really Loves you. And only you will know better than anyone. But you have to listen.
2007-02-15 00:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart knows you better than us! i met my bf off the nest and we have nearly been together 6 months, so meeting off the net isnt always a bad thing!
2007-02-15 00:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've been in the same situation so i know what you are going thru. keep your head up high...maybe get a hobby or something.anything to get him off your mind, if he's not intrested...let him be.I mean,"you can lead someone to a heart, but you can't make it love." so just be careful what you do. i mean have you ever met this guy? find someone in your area that you can relate to & get to know them better.
2007-02-15 00:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met this guy off the net 5 yrs ago and he was really sweet for along time and then i saw the real side of him which i didn't like. i was also with him for 5 yrs. so please b careful and good luck :) i hope he treats u right and makes u happy
2007-02-15 00:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
breaking it off because of exams isn't a good reason and if it was love, it wouldn't have let that happened.
if you love someone, there is never a 'leave' option or 'stay'. it is pretty much work things out, talk to eachother and decide what is best.
2007-02-15 00:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask then the answer is probably no. why is meeting him off the net a bad thing that's how i met my partner and we are very happy. if its meant to be then it will work out.
2007-02-15 00:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only your and your heart can know whether you are in love or lust...
There is no tick-box rule
I would say left it, he doesn't seem to bothered in you... Just try to move on, and meet someone new
2007-02-15 00:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by ஐ♥PinkBoo - TTC #1♥ஐ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he already did the leaving and you didnt take the hint and he doesnt have the sack now to tell you to kick rocks
2007-02-15 00:20:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋