My ex and I broke up a last sept...since then we have both gone
through, well what people go thru with a breakup. For the past
2 weeks he has been calling every night..we talk, just like we
did when we were together. Every relationship has it's ups and
downs...we had something unique, isn't that worth trying again.
I now see the faults I had in the realationship, I have grown alot
since then. I do enjoy hearing from him and talking, but one of us
has to be the adult and take the plunge..do I ask him to get
together and talk...put it all out there? HELP!
2007-02-15 00:13:47 · 10 answers · asked by wicktjw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you still want him then ask him out
2007-02-15 00:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Universe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex's are sometimes like kryptonite. They can make us so week that we just give in. I went through what your going through with my ex for 3 years on and off. We would get back together for a couple of months and then the same issues would resurface and it would start all over again. Have you ever broken up and gotten back together before? If not, have you sat down and talked about the reasons why you broke up? I would suggest doing this and making your own lists of things that were good about the relationship and things that were negative that need to be worked on or fixed. I believe everyone should be allowed a second chance if you feel that it will be worth your time to try again. You know in your heart whether you love them, miss them, want to be with them, or whether it will honestly work again. Follow your heart. Good luck
2007-02-15 00:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by sd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not in any respect. that could want to be like pulling a carton of milk out of the refrigerator, taking a drink and sorting out it really is bitter and then putting it decrease back in the refrigerator questioning it is going to likely be more desirable sensible day after today. you won't be able to respond to that question because you does no longer recognize what replaced into going to ensue to the marriage. it might want to easily be an identical because the first time you married. If I knew what replaced into going to ensue to the marriage, then definite i might want to because i does no longer be who i'm today if it wasn't for that adventure. on the different hand, in case you knew, than you may want to attempt to regulate issues because you may want to recognize what went incorrect and also you nevertheless be married to them and also you does no longer finally end up being the guy you're today. you does no longer be with the guy you're with now. i'm starting off to get a headache only questioning about all this. no longer in elementary words that, yet now i'm questioning about my ex and that i have worked so frustrating over the years to save him in the previous. thanks a lot! lol do not complication i am going to get over it and that i wanted the snigger. This replaced right into a very sturdy question.
2016-11-03 12:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet somewhere for lunch. It's casual but will allow you to warm up again. Once you're done with lunch suggest going somewhere to talk. Tell him that the truth is, you wanted to see him to tell him that you sometimes wonder about him and that you miss him. If he responds positively ("I missed you too") then continue by telling him you'd like to see more of him. This will segue in to your relationship happening once again, should it happen. Good luck, and remember it's okay to not have to wait for him to take the plunge. Go ahead and take it. It's worth taking.
2007-02-15 00:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u want to, and do u think it worth it, then try it again, its true in a relationship theres a lot of ups n downs, but u gotta be sure; almost all the times when a couple decides to come back, its not the same..but if u love him, n u think that he loves you back, go on..
2007-02-15 00:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Wendicita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing all the facts and feelings
do not go backwards - move ahead with your life...
2007-02-15 00:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by IPnlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you step in that pile of dog poop twice?
2007-02-15 00:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by jacquie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, no, do not do it again. Go out with someone else.
2007-02-15 00:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, ask him, give it another shot, if it dosent work out then move on.
2007-02-15 00:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by heartofgold 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really wont it to work that is what you have to do
2007-02-15 00:17:28 · answer #10 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋