My ex was a very needy person attentive wise I was in college tryin to make a better living 4 us, but things got so bad to a point to where she brought this guy out of nowhere to our home pretending to be friends. Then a month later she's pregnant. Before all this, we were tryin to have kids of our own But she did it without my knowledge. When everything came out, in my eyes she cheated, disrespected me & all. In her eyes she "did it for us"..I dont believe that. But I blamed myself for what happened & tried to make it right, but as time progressed, I knew in my heart I did nuthing wrong..So I strayed away becuz I felt I deserved better. The baby is a constant reminder, but is not baby's fault. She says to this day its our child, but the father is still involved. He knew she was lesbian up front..I still draw myself back but she see how badly it had damaged us, maybe even trying again. Now it seems she's tryin to right her wrongs. I dont know if I should give her a chance again.
2007-02-15 00:13:22 · 5 answers · asked by shawntelli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry to say, but once the trust has been broken there's no turning back, my theory is once they cheat on you and you try to forgive them for it, and they try to win that trust back sooner or later they gonna do it again, you forgave them once, you will do it again...
2007-02-15 00:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by Terry Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont put yourself through that again, back then it was understandable you being in college and all but now youre a learned person and should be wiser. Walk away and dont look back....
2007-02-15 00:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... tough question. if u have enough money, have the baby a DNA check. but if the baby is really yours, then she wouldn't have gone out with that man. maybe the man is leaving her? so she needs someone for the baby...
i dunno, i just make speculations.
pray to Him for guidance, and maybe a sign :)
good luck!
2007-02-15 00:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not worth a second chance
2007-02-15 00:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really know what to say about this
2007-02-15 00:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋