the only guy that ever made me happy, had a gf but he told me he dumped her, we made out twice but kept what was going on between us a secret but as usual someone found out and befor long everyone knew and then he stopped talking to me! i phoned him on monday since he wasnt communicating with me and told him that everyone knows about me and him and he told me to tell them to shut up then i asked him why he doesnt text me anymore and he said that its cause he have no money on his phone!! im hearing stories that his gf and him are still together and plan on phoning him tomorrow? should i?
2007-02-15 00:05:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im phoning to ask if the rumours are true and where i stand
2007-02-15 00:06:04 · update #1
yes why not ask him if its all true its not bad if u will know it from him.. first is always to ask the person and not to listen around behind the clock.
2007-02-15 00:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Let me save you the surprise and embarassment of phoning him.
The guy is not interested in you and is already in a relationship with someone else. If he wanted to be with you, he would be. He would make an effort to contact you and would have dumped his girl friend.
You were just an interesting distraction from his regular relationship. He auditioned you to see if you were better than what he already had, and you failed the audition. This is why he asked to keep your relationship a secret, and is not chasing after you. This is also why he doesn't text you any more and makes up lies about not being able to call you on the phone.
You need to move on.
2007-02-15 08:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by ZCT 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No wrong and right moves here. You're not having an easy time, are you. Phone him, talk to him, tell him how you feel. That's the least you can do for yourself- express your feelings in front of the person that caused them. He had no money on his phone?-ridiculous! Whether it's men or women, if there's a will, there's a way. When someone starts finding good reasons and behaving in a hurtful and disrespectful way, that's a sign. If it was you, think of it, wouldn't you do anything to reach the person you care for? Do whatever your heart says- the best compass on your happy way! Good luck!
2007-02-15 08:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by wafwafmata 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to be with a guy that wants to keep your relationship a secret??? He is a sneaky snake- don't call him, text him or speak to him again. He doesn't like or respect you, so stay away from him! All of the people on here are saying the same thing- so pay attention!
2007-02-15 08:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by Susan H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's been playing two sides of the fence, I think you could call him and get "closure," if that's what you are looking for. He probably isn't done with his old relationship yet and can't make up his mind. He could be lying about the phone or not.
Try to find a guy that appreciates you more.
2007-02-15 08:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When poeple break up it's not always clean. They still have feelings they need to work though. If you really like the guy you need to understand this.
Be sensitive, don't demand too much right now. But be ready to pounce when he's ready for a relationship.
On the other hand he may just be a sleazebag who's cheating :)
2007-02-15 08:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by brown one 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no dont call him... u will get the answer if u wait...
if he doesn call that simply means that he doesnt care for u anymore and he could still be with the other girl...
if u call him each time that may make things worse... he might want to distance himself from u... if he really likes u he'll do his best to call... just wait and see... and if he doesnt call then dont be upset... u will get a better guy than him and u should be happy to get rid of him if he isnt a gd person... gd luck
2007-02-15 08:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by Rose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just leave him and his attitude. if your relationship cant be public there is obviously something wrong (ie girlfriend) find your self someone who will treat you like you deserve and leave him to play around with someone else behind his girlfriends back. he is not making you happy now and will not do in the future if this is how he treats you.
2007-02-15 08:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you already know where you stand. The writing's on the wall.
Chalk this up to experience and move on. And DON'T contact him anymore.
2007-02-15 08:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by Ade 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
not a good idea, you will never truly be happy with someone else's bf that will never be yours. Bad situation from the start and I am sure you deserve better...
2007-02-15 08:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He never broke up with his girlfriend. But if you must know, what harm could it do? The relationship is fouled up already.
2007-02-15 08:11:02 · answer #11 · answered by allisoneast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋