Caught Boyfriend with Porn.. Do I confront him?

Question

I was on my boyfriend of 2 years' computer last night and when I was typing up a website, the computer history beginning with that same letter came up and there was a porn site. I went to it to be sure. It really bothers me because we have a very close relationship and I dont know if I should confront him... I just feel alittle uncomfortable. Is he just being a guy? Or is this something I should bring up?! Help....

Answer 1

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Answer 2

First of all, It depends on what he was looking at and if it is child porn, Dump his a*s and don't stay around to explain why!
Second, Why are you uncomfortable? Is it because you don't accept that he should look at other women or do you believe that he is somehow cheating on you. This is a very important question for you to answer for your self. My impression is that you don't trust something about him or you would not be searching his computer history, and if you don't trust him then the relationship is doomed unless their is a major change of belief structure in both of you.
If you think that he is cheating on you by watching porn, explain that to him and your relationship will probably be over soon anyway, because he will feel as if his privacy has been violated and he will get defensive, and he is justified to some extent.
If what the two of you do isn't completely trustworthy and open and above board, then you haven't got a healthy relationship in the first place.
Porn exists! internet porn exists! Sometimes it pops up as an innocent link and when you click on it it leads you to a site that you don't care to go to, or that you did want to go to. what you must assess is why it showed up and was he really watching it.
Pornography may go back as far as 26,000 years, so one must assume that it is an aspect of humanity that, however unpleasant it is to you, is perfectly natural. The question then comes back to Why are you so upset and uncomfortable?
To deny him the ability to look at other women is to deny him his humanity and suggests that the real problem would lie with you.
If you are jealous, then it is because something in you doesn't trust him and your whole relationship needs to be examined.
If you don't want him to look at pornography, you should tell him without mentioning the computer and let it be known through simple honesty that you don't approve. The chips will have to fall as they may. If he respects your wishes, he will stop. If he doesn't respect your wishes, then you may have a bigger problem than what he looks at when you aren't around and you will need to re-evaluate your whole relationship
There is no policy that can beat trust and honesty, both with yourself and with your significant other
GOOD LUCK!