My girl delivered five months ago and refuses to sleep with me because she says she lost interest in sex. She says she has never had so much sex with a guy in her life like me and she just does not live up to it. I had thought it is homornal and asked her to see the doctor and she refused. What will you do in such a case? I am really frustrated by the developments especially since she does not want to see a doctor, i just dont understand it. Please help me.
2007-02-14 22:53:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like she hates you. I would get my affairs in order and find a new place to live. You were played like a fish.
2007-02-14 22:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was YOUR reaction or behavious towards her pregnancy and child birth? How are you envloved in the bringing up of your child? How considerate were you or are you in both cases?
Your answers to these questions can give a lot of explainations on how and why she reacts this way. If, on all account you were really considerate, carring, loving and selfish, then there are probably physical reasons from her side. Give her time to recover. If not, you need to reconsider your "attitude", previous and current one towards her. In which case, its YOU and not HER who should see a doctor.
All the best!/
2007-02-15 07:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the father?get a dna test done because you be fixin to pay some child support if you are the father,secondly move on cause shes got all she wants from you,shes gonna be lookin for some more child support from someone else,gosh women have all the fun.
2007-02-15 07:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by dcam47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give her time...having a baby can be very stressful..and leave you feeling really tired ...and all you want to do is sleep..or rest...
She may also be feeling unatractive...and lost the confidence to engage in anything sexual.
You need to give her space..talk to her..make her feel special..make her feel like she is still beautiful...if you can..offer to help with the baby.
Also need to give her time to recover..depends how she deliverd..what she went through..she might still be abit sore.
Just wait a while..have patience..and appriciate her..and help her.
She will come around eventually...
2007-02-15 07:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually that's normal for some woman to feel like that. She could be making excuses because she feels you don't consider her feelings, that you are just there to satisfy yourself. I'm sure that's not your intention. If she means more to you than just sex then maybe try to woe her, make her feel special and let it lead up to it.
2007-02-15 07:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by Tinkiegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she still in pain for having her baby.. did u ask about that? maybe she think that if she have sex with u she will be pregnant again by having sex and she is afraid about it..try to ask her in a nice way and dont get frustrated
2007-02-15 07:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend+ Baby= She wants a ring on her finger .
She does not want to take the chance of getting knocked up with another bastard child of a man (and I use that term loosely) who does not want to commit to her.
2007-02-15 07:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope your relationship was not "only for sex" .Talk to her about her feelings and do not try to impose your wishes on her .Just get as much information from her as you can by talking .Once she will feel comfortable and confident she will get ready for physical relationship with you too.
2007-02-15 07:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by APNim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dint know what to say may be she go see a groups of people if she wont go see a Dr. good luck
2007-02-15 07:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably doesnt feel pretty. She probably just wanted a baby. If it is your baby, you two need to get married and you need to take care of both of them.
2007-02-15 06:56:54 · answer #10 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋