Is it a feeling or a combination of emotions for someone? i.e. should the love of your life make your heart race every time you see them? or is it more to do with finding someone you can get on with pretty well and is that enough? I guess not everyone finds the love of their life and therefore has to make do with what they have after all the grass is always greener!
2007-02-14 22:31:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
problem is life aint a holiday workin 9 - 5 payin bills etc etc so I build up a thick skin to life, almost like cynicism, and that becomes quite hard to break. the older i get the harder the skin becomes and the more likely i am to settle with someone i get on with pretty well (apert from the fact that there arent a lot of nice single women around it seems). I look around and listen to couples and i reckon its that way for a lot of guys as in we make do and get into buyin fast cars, motorbikes atc to compensate!
2007-02-14 22:49:23 · update #1
The love of my life is called Caroline. I ride her everyday and have taken her to the end of Britain and back. She looks great and can go for miles! I often enjoy riding her all night long.
She is of course my motorbike.
2007-02-14 22:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by theearlof87 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feelings you get when you first fall in love, which are all consuming and take over your life dont actually last forever, thankfully.They are just the first stages of love.After that we all settle into a more comfortable and less intense time, where friendship, sharing mutual interests etc, are more important than the initial feelings.If you love and trust someone, respect them, enjoy their company and are both prepared to work at it and put each other first,you may have the foundations for a great and long lasting relationship.I think you just know when something feels right and is meant to be.
2007-02-15 07:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ramona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The love of my life must be someone who impresses me all the time, makes my heart race everytime we meet and it is also important that he is someone I can get along pretty well.
There must be understanding between two people. Love is important, but understanding is more important. You may love someone dearly, but if you don't understand that person, consider your relationship's half over.
A single misunderstanding in a relationship can break the whole thing up!
2007-02-15 06:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the grass is never greener, chick but if you haven't found the love of your life and your settling for "just someone you get on with pretty well" then it will never work out and you will never be completely happy, not as happy as you should be anyway.
when you find your pefect match you will feel the connection between you both, its so strong its unbelievable, your head will be whirling with emotions of love and pain, pain because you cant bear to be away from them and would die without them, they make you the happiest person in the world and you dont care what happens from this moment as long as you are with them everything will be ok.
If you have not found this chick then keep looking you owe it to yourself, dont settle for second best thinking those feelings will develop later because they won't x
2007-02-15 06:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stayed with my husband for as long as I did because of my kids....I was never "in Love" with him! He never made my heart race......He was my best friend and we made the mistake of getting married!! I'm still waiting for that "heart racing" moment...don't know if it'll happen but I hope it does!!
2007-02-15 06:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by prettywoman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋