I took a girl on a trip to Hawaii - all paid. We got into some arguments after we came back about her being dishonest. I tried desparately to try to make up to her etc. etc. and she changed her phone number on me. I still bought her Valentine's gifts to show her I cared. I got her flowers that were delivered to her work and also got her a necklace that I gave to her in person the day before V-day. I've written her letters saying I do care and want to have a friendship with her. She called last night, with her number information blocked intentionally, and says she'll call me Sunday - I mentioned I didn't have her number and she still didn't offer me it. On Sunday, we're supposed to get together to make each of us a scrapbook of the trip we had. I'm leaving the state the next week. I believe she wants to make the scrapbooks that day, then never speak to me again. She doesn't seem to want to spend any time with me either. So, should I see her or am I wasting my time?
2007-02-14 22:26:06 · 8 answers · asked by Shawn S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how you feel as I was in a similiar situation.But my ex didn't change his number nor did he give me any chance to talk or meet him again. I'd say go see her, make the scrapebook, and say goodbye. You need to move on with your life though. She obviously does not want to have anything to do with you and she was being dishonest once, so she is not really worth it. A nice guy like you deserves better.
2007-02-14 22:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by hhfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow your a pretty cool guy it seems. Well, if I was in your shoe, I try to see her. Looks like you already did all you can tho. Man, than on the other hand I feel like she really is losing intrest in you. I don't recemend this but you should go ahead and try to talk to 2 girls at once. I know when you chase two hare you won't catch nothing but if you keep chasing, there are some that won't run far. Just be a player and when you think you have the right girl, settle. I know at first you want to be honest but hey, you never know that the oppisite sex feels the same. I would try to stay in touch with this girl ur talking about. It seems that she's just a bit hot and needs time to chill down.
2007-02-15 06:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the point of making a scrapbook together if she never wants to speak to you again afterwards?
2007-02-15 06:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Chiv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously,she has no real intention towards you.doesnt deserve all the attention you pour on her.i feel she knows that there is no future with you,so looked for a smooth way of escape.this is what she is doing.
2007-02-15 07:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by bamboke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your wasting your time. Call it a loss and try and forget about it. Sorry you got used. Good luck.
2007-02-15 06:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hola Shankespear
I not read your question i just say dat
"snoekies back and here to stay once agen come n play"
Yay
2007-02-15 06:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by totaly confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on and stop wasting your life on someone who is obviously not interested, find someone who will love you and appreciate you as much as you deserve
2007-02-15 06:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
... obviously, she's saying "leave me alone..."
better go find a girl deserving of your attention..
2007-02-15 06:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by why? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋