My boyfriend has a profile on myspace and there are a lot of ppl sending him messages and the pics they use as profiles bearly has clothes on. he says they are just his friends. Should i feel jelous/leave it or tell him to close his profile?
2007-02-14 22:20:44 · 5 answers · asked by (",) JJ (,") 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
There are a lot of nasty people out there who just don't know how to behave in public. I think they think that just because they aren't meeting people face to face that they aren't in public but you are in public on line. I think the common rules of etiquette should apply for cyber public as well as if you were out in the 'real' world. If you would run a round in your underwear around town, don't do it on line.
I would ask him why he is hanging around people like this and base my actions on his answer.
If you don't like what he says, you don't have to live with it or him. You can always break up with him if he is not in line with your beliefs.
If this sounds harsh, think about if you want to be dealing with this same issue for the rest of your life because as long as you are with him it will be an issue.
2007-02-15 04:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by TeaQueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As my brother always said... If you can't trust your girlfriend (well, in your case, boyfriend) on something like this, the relationship's already over. You have to put faith in your partner that they have the judgment to stay morally true to you.
Messages like that on myspace are constantly sent back and forth, if everyone were so wary of their partners receiving and replying to those messages, the entire MySpace community would be single.
2007-02-14 22:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Ultima vyse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your concerns, and if he blows you off then tell him it's over. There's no relationship without trust. Also look at your bf's profile, does he have similar pics up that he may be using to lure people to his page, or are there pics of both of you up there, etc.?
2007-02-15 00:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone unless he proves himself to be doing something wrong.
2007-02-14 23:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by ropemancometh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check this situation out & then decide, click on the link
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoFWjtv5z6CbT5HDYLAxG4Lsy6IX?qid=20070215030302AA9sR8K&show=7#profile-info-d43458cbba96929701931c05f241c0beaa
2007-02-14 22:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by Tim 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋