Why do guys run for the hills if I tell them can we just be friends I don't want a BF now..whats with them I really don't understand...I just want to be friends with them nothing more!
2007-02-14 22:06:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a guy says he just wants to be your friend he will be lying to you . Do you want to be friends with a liar?
2007-02-14 22:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by Rock Star Outlaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, little one...when guys talk to women, they are looking for the opposite of a friend; they want someone to explore the intimate side of their personalities, the part they never show when they're with their friends. Conversely, when they hang out with their buddies, they don't want to hear/see/think about the softer side of life. Everything has its place and having a friend that you can sleep with when you get horny is about ideal; it just never stays that way long-term! Try telling him that you want to just be his friend, but 'with benefits' and see if he hangs around!!! You can't have it both ways...either you want him around and are willing to be MORE than just friends, or you don't need him around that badly.
2007-02-15 06:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever seen "When Harry Met Sally"? I'll quote it:
"The reason that men and women can't be friends is because the sex thing always gets involved."
The fact is, men more often than not don't want to just be friends. So if you write them off immediately, you'll know what they really wanted.
2007-02-15 06:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These answers make guys all look like sex perverts.
If you believe in God, Don't forget he made man and woman so they attract to each other for procreation. Thats the natural order of things.If he made us so that we would all be buddies the world would be in bad shape over time. I know there are some bad apples, but that too is on both sides.
2007-02-15 06:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have rejected them, they understand that. Do you?
Other than when there is the potential (real or imagined) to eventually get into your pants, there is no reason for a guy to be friends with a girl.
2007-02-15 06:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
`Cause if they see someone, as pretty as you are? They figure, that you've got a Squeeze. Ans he ain't with you talking with some guys. Just spend more time, around `em. They'll learn, soon enough. But do remember. This is a Men, we're talki' about.! We're not all that intelligent!!
2007-02-15 06:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, apparently they don't want to be "just friends" with you. They're not worth it honey. You must be very pretty. You'll just have to weed out the bad one's. Good luck.
2007-02-15 06:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't want to be friends. They want sex.
The only time men want to be just friends with you is when you are butt ugly. Its a good sign men don't want to be friends with you, cause if they did then I'd guess they think you are not worth it.
2007-02-15 06:41:16 · answer #8 · answered by gotagetaweigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys makes friends with girls on ulterior motive level,which is unacceptable by girls.
2007-02-15 06:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most girls i talk to want more i don't
2007-02-15 07:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋