how can people be so heartless?

Question

I am about to give birth, i am due in 3 weeks and i have a cat that i LOVE so much, he is def spoiled and i would NEVER think about giving him away because of the baby. why do people have to do this? How can you just love your pet and so easily get rid of them before even knowing how they will react to the baby. I love my unborn baby and care about her wellbeing but i am so worried about how my cat is going to react, i think the baby will be fine, it's my cat im worried about! it's too bad that cats have such a bad rep with pregnant women and babies. I know this isnt really a question but i had to vent after reading a question about getting rid of a cat because she is having a baby in 2 months.

Answer 1

Unfortunately, people are ignorant and still believe old wives tales about cats and babies. I have had several friends who have had cats and kids at the same time and everyone got along just fine.

When your baby comes, you will be so busy (and tired) that it may be easy to forget your feline friend. That's why cats usually get jealous--they're being ignored while the new kid in town gets all the attention. You can let your kitty know they're not forgotten by giving them a pat or scratch as you walk past, taking a moment to rub their head or under their chin a once or twice a day, or giving them special food or treats more often than before. I have a friend who used to rock her baby to sleep with her child in her arms and her cat in her lap! Her little boy and her cat are now inseperable; in fact, the kitty tries to protect him if she feels anyone is trying to hurt him--which includes his parents, who are simply trying to discipline him on occasion. There is no reason you should give away your cat. Your kitty will be a source of great comfort to you when you feel overwhelmed with motherhood and may be your child's first best friend.

Answer 2

IT IS JUST as you have said. It is the rep. that goes with this kind of behavior. ALL the cat is or will do is try to get to the MILK that you will be feeding the Baby. Just keep a close eye on the Cat and everything will be fine my dear. I have 4 Grandchildren and 2 Cats myself. When My Grandchildren were small on the bottle, my Cats NEVER went near the children. My Daughter was living with me part of the time so I know what I am saying, and have had *Cats many years around babies, small children, and other peoples kids also. It pays to be careful, but you DO NOT HAVE to get RID , (I hate that word) of your Furry Baby, the Cat. Just keep an eye on the Baby and it will be great, and the child will love him too as they grow up together. Time will pass before you know it.

Answer 3

I totally agree. I have had cats all my life and 2 children. Never had a problem! I think it is mostly how people treat their pets. If you treat them good then there should not be a problem.
Those people that give them away probably shouldn't have a pet to begin with and it is probably for the best interest of the cat. Unfortunately since there is such a shortage of homes alot of times these poor things end up being killed.
It is a very sad situation and I am trying to help with that by rescuing cats.

Answer 4

The first person is right. People are worried about their babies.
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First, just keep your child in its on room, or at least yours, and always close the door behind you.
But if you want to see what will happen if your cat sees your child, you could probably ask the people or shelter where you cat was from, I'm not sure. Or look at the kitten's records.
OR, you can put the kitten in its cage, and hold the baby in front of it (outside of its cage) and see what happens. make sure that the baby doesn't put its hand or legs or anything inside though.

Answer 5

I had cats while I was pregnant with both of my kids. I did have to get rid of one of them. He refused to stay out of the baby's crib. My concern was this...cats love milk breath, this is how the "killer cat" thing got started. A cat "could" climb into the crib and cuddle with your newborn. NOT LIKELY THOUGH! I was a first time mom and wasn't taking any chances. I do not suggest that you get rid of him. Keep the cat out of the baby's room and you won't have any problems. My kids have grown up with my cats and I never had any problems. The occasional cat scratch but ya know what you wash it with soap and water and you keep an eye on it....Don't stress chick! It'll all be fine

Answer 6

Because people are usually more worried about their child, their offspring, than their cat, their friend.

I think some people may get rid of their cats out of irrational fears (like the cat smothering you while you sleep at night), it's not impossible but just not likely.

Otherwise, I don't hear about that happening too often.

Answer 7

You don't have to gave away your cat. My parents had a dog when I was born. We had to give him away because he was over protective and bit my grand ma when she tried to pick me up. When you are about to bring the baby home, first bring home something with its sent on it. Make sure you give your cat attention. Good Luck.

Answer 8

HI,
What ever you do......PLEASE don't consider getting rid of your beloved cat, cats are good with new things it just takes time to settle.....of course....they are more like humans, like i said just give it time and.....when your beautiful baby arrives....act normaly arround the cat and you will all be fine.

Answer 9

He will be fine just be yourself with him do not change towards him and he will accept the new family member.The Golden Rule with all animals is never to leave your baby alone with any animal .

Answer 10

Because as heartless as it sounds, cats are replaceable; children however, are not.