2007-02-14 21:56:09 · 6 answers · asked by ALICJA S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well just telling her wont do any good you have to show her what could happen to her life and she is under 18 so mom you rule try taking her to the police dept. they can show her where she will wind up if she dont stop and dont let people tell you it wont hurt her they are wrong
2007-02-14 22:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the PARENT--so parent !! Better get with it---have a sane conversation, set the ground rules--and set the punishment if she fails to live up to your rules--that's a fact. Find the supplier and notify the police--or have the police come while it is a juvenile offense--otherwise you will bail her out as an adult. At 18 she can do what she wants--including ruin her life---but not now---so take a stand and limit her friends, limit her freedom and watch her. YOU ARE IN CHARGE___not open to discussion ---be the adult here.After 18, you can't worry about it--why ruin your life--just throw her out and don't support her---my father would have beat the snot out of me the first time I used drugs or disrespected him--harsh?? YES but I am not on drugs either...and I still care what he thinks. Your daughter doesn't care--so why should you--it will be her decision---sorry, but I just hope you have luck here. It is called tough love.
2007-02-14 22:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't really explain this to her. don't be scared of her taking canabis, it's a lot safer than alcohol! it should be legalised honestly don't be scared of it. i have tried it i didn't like it, just a personal choice. my parents smoked it when i grew up but i thought it was a godsend. it chills them out, they never went onto anything worse and it really did calm them down, also it's not addictive. if you look at alcohol people get agressive they can become alcoholics they leave themselves vulnerable. cannabis isn't like that if anything were to happen to your daughter whilst she had been smoking cannabis then she would still know what was going on and would still be able to protect herself. i'm not saying that cannabis is a good thing because it can lead to mental health issues i'm just trying to put you at ease. the mental health issues only come after continuous use throughout years of peoples lives. the only thing that you need to be scared of is your daughter trying out other sorts of drugs as these are scary and the consequences that come along with these can be fatal. you should discuss with your daughter try to explain to her how you are feeling. you could also go on google and type in side effects of cannabis and then show her about pschitsophrenia. hopefully this has been a help to you. i'm not saying that your daughter smoking canabis is a good thing i just don't want you to worry because it realy is not as bad as the media makes it out to be
2007-02-14 22:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if i found out my teens were doing any drugs on a every day basis, i would call the police and have them come pick her up. minor in possesion. if you don't, you yourself could actually get into trouble for this.
2007-02-15 00:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her 2 a drugs counciller
2007-02-14 21:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by xx jess xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it away from her....limit her outside activity...get her to a counselor.....she is a minor and it is against the law...do what you have to do to stop it before it becomes a bigger problem...good luck
2007-02-14 22:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋