we had a day all of these yr 10's and me and my friend ended up being in this guys group with his friend (4 of us) and he kept smiling at me
the next day it was the same and then it was the weekend
on the monday he hardly looked at me, i dont know if he didn't notice me or was sick of being nice to me...
he still smiles but we dont talk as it's just passing between class he's said hi a few times but i'd really like to talk to him more
im really shy, we have this email system at school, should i email him?
2007-02-14 21:40:14 · 10 answers · asked by janejesamine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You guys are teens and therefore mostly shy and discovering yourselves. Its hard to say if he likes you. Hey he likes you enough to be pleasant right? If he has smiled at you its worth a shot with him.
You know what why not try and overcome your shyness and talk to him in person when you are walking between class. Say something like "what are you doing on the weekend" obviously on a Friday.
That would be sooo much better than an email from nowhere. But hey if you are too shy to talk to him in person, write an email, I see no harm in that. He will be flattered.
But make it snappy and punchy. And playful. Something like this.
"Hey Sam
Could I borrow your lab notes
I'd really appreciate it ;)
Emily"
If you say something personal there is the danger of him telling his friends and embarrassing you. You know what these boys are like.
But with that type of email, its unclear whether you are hitting on him, but he will get a buzz from receiving a mail from you. It will open the channel of future communication.
If he says anything back that is remotely personal or opens the gap for conversation then you have an email of his to show and he is trusting you and hence you can be more trusting in writing to him. Also if he says anything personal, then its game on for conversation to start.
Good luck
2007-02-14 21:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sending email to a friend is okay. Just be natural don't be too pushy or aggressive. a simple hello & how are you at teh start would be fine.
2007-02-14 21:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by Leonie A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhmmm.Maybe, no one can predict what will surely happen. Maybe he loves you or no.Or maybe theres something he likes in you. Just wait think ten times to decide. E-mail him, theres nothing wrong. If youre shy maybe you are the one who loves him!
2007-02-14 21:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to answer your questions then just email him. your better off knowing. confusion is awful and you don't want to get your hopes up, although i'm sure he's probably just shy and doesn't know what to say to you
2007-02-14 21:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't like you. If he did you would know it and wouldn't have to ask. Better luck next time.
2007-02-14 21:42:44 · answer #5 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should surely email him. Chances are he wa just trying to make you feel comfortable.
2007-02-14 21:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ,wait for some more time. wait for few more signals/symptoms of love. Do not rush into it.
2007-02-14 21:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by ramesh c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should write him something,at the begining something friendly.example:"Hi,how are you?I had a thought of you and I decided to write you..What's new?" something like this..
2007-02-14 21:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u can talk to him in person...............its much better
coz sumtimes emails u kno they can be forwarded and stuff....so its better to talk
jus go say hi or sumthin.............
2007-02-14 21:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by bored 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure e-mail him. What harm can it do?
2007-02-14 21:54:20 · answer #10 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋