I've heard this several times and I wonder if it's really true. Obviously there are guys who are very physically attractive, that you know within the first five seconds. But my question is do you ALWAYS know within the first five minutes? Has there been a person you would have thought "no" at first and then changed your mind? (And by changed your mind, I don't mean had a few shots of tequila.) Are there "maybes" in there as well? Is it a black and what matter, or more of a range of sexual compatibility. If there is a range, how did someone go from being a "maybe" or a "no" to a "yes?"
Please be honest here!
2007-02-14 21:21:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is true.we do know...but sometimes we can change our mind.and that happens when the apparently not so hot guy, turns out to have a really cool personality or we actually find we falling for that guy, then their looks dont matter AT ALL, and we really do want to sleep with them. its better to fall in the second category, cz then she likes you, and she likes your looks. thats the faithful girl.
2007-02-14 23:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a girl, I think that we love with our hearts, so I also have to like the person too. Who they are. Are they what I admire in a man? There are girls, I think, who are superficial about the whole process, but no, you don't always know within the first five seconds of meeting them.
2007-02-14 21:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONE guy managed to change my mind from a "NO WAY" to a YES. He did it by pursuing me for several months, every day. He was relentless. Flowers, gifts, notes, thoughtful gestures...
To change a woman's mind requires patience, effort, and sincerity. Eventually I felt closer and closer emotionally to him, until the point that it felt right to me to sleep with him.
I didn't think he was "hot" at first, but as I started to like him as a person more and more, he started to look "cute," then cuter and cuter. Now he is totally adorable to me, and the love of my life! :)
2007-02-14 21:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a female- yes. theres been times i see a sexi man and i see him across the way-not necessarily tallking to him and say hell yes i would. but just because u say u would doesnt mean u really would. we are looking at the phyically part. but later to find out his attitude or something else turns u off and u linger want to have him sexually. i have also said no, hell no- but that guy i ended up dating and sex was so good and he had ended up being good at the lip service action too!!!!!!!
2007-02-14 21:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by cute_dimples2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could know if i could sleep with a guy within the first five minutes. but when i get a negative vibe it stays that way. there is no way i will change it.
2007-02-14 21:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definite. i might want to imagine adult adult males are an identical way except their record of those they wont sleep with i'm particular is a lot shorter. isn't there a particular form of woman you may want to not in any respect sleep with and no volume of getting to draw close her might want to change that ?
2016-11-03 12:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually 30 seconds. but it does not mean that i will sleep with all guys i'd sleep with. then there are different external factors, which upraise, for example i more want him to be my friend, or he's married or... whatever. but i never change my mind about people with "no" lable
2007-02-14 21:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by saxa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not possible. I need to get to know him and feel comfortable around him first.
2007-02-14 21:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by hhfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometime back i met a guy who i instantly thot that i just wanted to sleep with him cuz there was just someting abt him but it never happen cuz something came up ,had to live tho i did get wat i wanted later on after some time.
2007-02-14 21:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,girls are different
2007-02-14 21:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋