I have been going out with this guy for four months and we have been find. up until a few weeks ago when this guy asked me out he is cute, sweet, and is really wanting to go out with me, and when he asked me out i realised things with my boyfriend havent been the same. My boyfriend is two years younger than me but the guy who asked me out is like five years difference between us but i don't know what to do still go out with my boyfriend or try somthing knew, i talked to my sister and she said you need something new. Im so confused what should i do
2007-02-14 21:16:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
flip a coin and let fate decide
2007-02-14 21:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can tell ya what to do. the choice is yours but you have to weigh up the pros and cons for each guy, which one do you really feel will always be there for you, won't let ya down and will be there to the end. I know your young and you wanna try new things but there are other ways to do it.
If you want to break up with your boyfriend then fine but give him an honest answer and do not make him feel like its all his fault.
But before doing anything ask yourself how much do you really know about the new guy, is he for really or only after one thing?
I hope that you make a decision that best suits you and that everything works out well. Good luck
2007-02-15 05:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by Lynda27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun the fact that you're even considering this other guy says a lot - you're obviously not totally into the first guy and its not fair on him when you are having your head turned by the second guy.
I think you're better off ending it and going out having fun without getting into anything too serious. If you really care about someone you wont consider what your question is based on - so you do need to end things.
xx
2007-02-15 05:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i recon only u should decide that but like u said things are not perfect between u and your boyfriend so you kind of av the answer already its just a case of making a tuff decision.anyways if u really like the other guy it wont hurt to try it out and see how things go from there i hope it goes well for u good luck
2007-02-15 05:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by glowing flair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok wow the love triangle... Well i would suggest that you should think about this carefully.... Ask yourself these questions. --> Do u still feel attracted towards you old bf?? Do u still love him?? Does he love you back and show you the love and respect you deserve?? Is he mature enough to handle you?? And then carefully think about these same questions with the new guy that likes you..... And from my point of view i think going out with sumone younger than you can be a bit of a mistake...cuz their level of thinkin etc are not as mature as yours.... So think carefully about these situations and then decide :D
Hope that helped :D
2007-02-15 05:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by NiceGirlRee;) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forbidden fruits comes to mind, you say everything was fine until he asked you out? Maybe you have realised you want different things out of life, Try spending time away from both and think it through!
2007-02-15 05:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-15 05:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever feels right you obviously are not 100% happy with your boyfriend if you are even considering going out with the other guy. i would break it off with your first boyfriend first though before going out with the other one. lucky girl having 2 men chasing her :--)
2007-02-15 06:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by dubgirl26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you want to go out with this other guy. I think you should see other people. Your current boyfriend might not understand this, but if you want to see this other guy, then you have your answer.
2007-02-15 05:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart.
2007-02-15 05:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by Nichola c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋