Theres a person who lives in another state, that I like ALOT. I've visited this person 2 times. We have strong feelings for each other. BUT we live in different states. And I just saw this persons Personal Ad and there were "provocative" photos. And this person is not that type. And I'm think "WHO THE HELL TOOK THESE!!!". I know we are not in a relationship, because of the distance. But it bothers me to see that. I need help getting over this person. How do I do that?? We have no future, but in the back of my head I keep think theres a chance. I'm going nuts.
2007-02-14 20:28:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And everytime I talk to this person...this person is always saying " I MISS YOU SO MUCH"....." I LOVE YOU!". and when I ask do you love me in a romantic way the answer is always " I dont know". Is this person playing with my emotions?? I starting to think so. Or is this person really in love with me , but finds it difficult because of the distance?
2007-02-14 20:41:08 · update #1
hey there~ hmmm.. i think this is a good idea... simply keep yourself busy so that u won't have time to think about her~ and then eventually...naturally... you'll realize that she has disappeared from your thoughts~ and doesn't exist in your life anymore... well, if you are not a busy person...i guess it's best to simply avoid the person, any topic related to her, anything that reminds you of her...avoid those stuff~! and don't watch romantic movies and don't listen to love songs~!! ^^v
2007-02-14 20:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by patakalangko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I have almost the same situation my girl lives in another state and she doesn't trust me always accusing me of being with someone else, and that gets me so hot, that she is insecure, and the truth is that I really Love this woman, but back to your question, if there is a photo on the net floating around out there, that doesn't mean that someone else took it now days with digital cams and timers a person could easily do it them-self, so don't worry about them cheating, worry about how it got on the net if they didn't do it then perhaps the person who developed it may have stole it and thinking it would have never reach the eyes to the person involved, I am trying to think positive here,
what I would do is confront the person with the Net sight where the photo was found and then see what they say instead of jumping the gun,
2007-02-15 04:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by MinO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh I HATE situations like that, where you head is telling you the smart thing to do the right thing to do, but your heart is telling you that you still care about that person that you still think there may be a chance for you too. I wish there was something I could say that would make any of this easier. The truth is you just have to get her out of your life. Try your best not to think about her, don't contact her as that will only make all of this harder, it's pretty clear that you can just be friends cause you have feelings for her. It's too hard for you, and that happens ya know? Just try your best to move on keep going and like i said try your best to not contact her at all it will make it much much easier for both of you in the end.
2007-02-15 04:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by Megz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your trying to make the relationship real by thinking it in yr head , i doubt the other person feels the same or you would know all about it with constant intimate chats on the phone. the reality is that person is looking else where so you should too , my best advice is to keep active with yr mind and in work/study . you never know you might bump into someone who likes you and thats all that counts its no use having a one way love where the other person is not bothered about you , its soul destroying ....so get out there put yrself about and think positive thoughts about yrself ........good luck.....
2007-02-15 04:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant help you but brother i know how you feel.I'm there except mine is 2 n a half years of a relationship and we keep splitting up,she keeps needing space but never finishes the relationship.Time to call it a day,but hell its hard.My point is my friend no i dint know how you do it and forget,but your not alone and you have my best wishes and my very good luck.Not that you will need it,you ll do it with out a doubt...all the best Jon
2007-02-15 04:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by The Ghost of Scousertommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to find someone new.. That will always help. ANother way is to find something else to think about. Hang out more often and you will soon ponder of something else. If you don't go out to hang out with your regular friends, you will always wound up thinking of that person because you seem to have nothing else to do
2007-02-15 04:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to get over a girl is another girl. But in the meantime you got to get a grip. You met her twice how much can you know about her? There are lots of women don't lose it over 1.
2007-02-15 04:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of the way your life used to be when you never knew this guy and live the same way. Find new friends and indulge in different activities
2007-02-15 04:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start thinking about other things/people just as interesting or more interesting. Keep your mind occupied with things you like to do, spend time with other people to take your mind off her.
2007-02-15 04:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try distracting yourself on yahoo! answers.
2007-02-15 04:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋