Ok heres the situation my friend went out with my friend for a year and a half off and on and now they have broken up and he has moved on and so has she and he has told her to sleep with me because i am looking for someone to basically have sex with. we talked about it and she is down but i do not know if i should do it. they have only been officially broken up for 3 months and he has moved on with other ppl and she hates him. so should i??? i think it will bring up problems even though my friend said its ok and he was the one to mention it in the first place what would u do if u were in my place? has anyone had this happen to them and end up having sex with the girl and still maintain the friendship with the guy? If he says its ok does that mean that he will get mad anyways and is just saying he doesnt care?
PLEASE NO BS ANSWERS
2007-02-14 20:27:36 · 14 answers · asked by The kid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answer is nope because being a sex hunter is evil.
2007-02-14 20:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i feel as if u shouldn't because i am a female speaking and i wouldn't. then again they were together for awhile(a year or so). It had to be serious or mean something. the fact that its only 3 months, just because he has someone else and moved on does not mean that he still dont think of her. a year of a relationship u just don't get over it like that. u know men as well they don't admit when they feel hurt or played most of the time. he may make it seem as if it is all good, but think that u a such a good friend, that u wouldn't consider going there. But if u really did-then he might feel hurt without u really knowin so. also she is not very respectful of ur friendship with him like u are because u are thinking before u do it and she said she yea she will sleep with u point blank. to me she seems like a hoe
2007-02-15 04:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by cute_dimples2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally ?@£ked up!
Why is your friend telling you that you should ahev sex with his ex...does she not have a say in this?
If you are doing it just for sex then it is a very bad idea.
You havent once mentioned whether you even like her like that or vice versa. Do you guys actually find each other sexually attractive or are you just doing it because there is nothing else to do where you live.
The issue with me isnt the politics of whether its ok to sleep with someone if they have broken up for 3 months its whether you should be sleeping with your 'friend' at all. Is it a club where if you havent all shagged each other you are not cool?
You also mentioned that she hates her ex...so could this not just be a revenge ****?
Dont have sex with your mates if you want them to stay your mates...you end up losing your friends otherwise.
After all is said and done though I really doubt that you are going to actually listen to anyone on here because you are too horned up, so go ahead a mess your friendships up if thats what you want
2007-02-15 04:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by salsabrunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiii, i don't know if my answer is what ur looking for but realy u shouldn't sleep or have sex with someone just for the sake of having sex.....i think there is more 2 it....try 2 find someone that u like or make a realationship with and trust me making love 2 the person u love and cherish is way way better then having sex with ur friends x
good luck
2007-02-15 04:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, just do it, because they are putting you in the middle of this situation. I'd do it to teach them both a lesson. If you're friend was really your friend he'd never put you in an uncomfortable position. Stop being a chump! Tell him, carefull what he wishes for coz it may happen. Also tell him that if you do end up sleeping with her and it gets weird between you guys, you'd gonna give him a tight slap over the head.
As for his ex-gf who is your also your friend, if she agrees and is consentual between both of you to indulge in recreational sex, go ahead! But be sure its consentual!!!!
And you! If it makes you uncomfotable to do her coz she's your friend's ex, go screw another girl!! There loads of consenting people out there who are looking for quick fixes and a lasting passionate relationships.
As you can see, no BS in this guy's answer!
2007-02-15 04:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by zarmano 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he has already told her about you looking for someone for SEX ONLY, and if she is also looking for SEX ONLY, then bang, bang!
If you think you or she may want longer relationship, or love involved, then I'd say: Find some other if you're really friends with him.
2007-02-15 04:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend you should not do that to her. if u broke the relation means u don't like her anymore.Its unfair for her co'z u r using her weaknessess especially still she did not accept or moving on. you must respect her. and try to give little bit space so that she think that life must go on and we have wonderful world.and most of all there is God.
2007-02-15 04:47:01 · answer #7 · answered by kate 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he's ok with it, so go for it. I doubt that he would get mad if he's already with someone else.
2007-02-15 04:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think its right and both of you want it then go for it! Its a mutual consent, isn't it?
All the best!/
2007-02-15 04:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by Ebby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it dosnt mater what they say, it all ends up horribly and you will end up looking like the bad guy
2007-02-15 04:33:12 · answer #10 · answered by name_taken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋