i tend to feel alot of guilt, if a friendship doesn't work out, i automatically think its my fault, i alwasys think i am a bad person even i do good things, why am i like this? i came from a very abusive family
2007-02-14 20:27:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you need to build your self confidence.be sure and confident about any decisions you make in life and remeber that not all things in life go your way and not everyone will agree with you.but you can't keep feeling guilty all the time for who you are and the decisions you make.
so just be confident in yourself.yes, you will make mistakes and some people will hate you or spite(even if what you do or say is right) but you cannot and should not adjust yourself or your decisions becasue of what the world is thinking about you.be yourself and have confidence in the person you are
2007-02-14 22:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by therna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many reasons if a friendship doesn't work out. On your part never try to impress some one by acting. Never do good things just to make friends. Pay attention to your heart to be pure. Do not care about what others think about you because all are not worthy to be your genuine friend. Do not say " I am from a very abusive family" but think that god is sending everyone on this earth to see who remain pure hearted amidst impure atmosphere and people. Than God include one in his family. One must think to be a member of God's family as no other family is greater than. Bless you.
'Prafull' Paramaatmaa Das,
"Vishw Paramaatmaa Parivaar"
2007-02-15 05:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by vishw_paramaatmaa_parivaar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear ,believe in yourself and analyse your deed with other's eye also,in doubtful cases take other's suggestions.
I think because of your family background you have low self confidence and self respect thats why you hav developed inferiority complex.try come out of it.no human being is perfect on this earth.Try not to hurt anyone and do deed in favor of mankind.
Build up your self confidence ,that will come automatically when other's appreciate your work.read good books.try to give your best in whatever you do.When we talk of relations we should be faithful and loyal.You can not please everyone.Belive in your self and never do any wrong deed.
Don't know about your age and education so can't suggest specifically.
Many things surrounds us and leave impression on our brain so try to have good things/good people/good thoughts around you.
hope u will find some change in ur life.
2007-02-15 05:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by Dingy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abusive family is just an excuse but not the source. Inferiority leads you easily to give up. Then you regret, then you feel guilty. Nothing is perfect, you cannot make everyone happy, but at least, to make yourself happy.
2007-02-15 04:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by Shanghai Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i think you can change your attitude and i mean try different ways but anyway i think there is nothing bad with you. you are just good but believe it! ok dear?
2007-02-15 04:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you born under the sign of Cancer by chance?
2007-02-15 04:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by kellyfromcali. 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋