I need your help.?

Question

Hello everyone, you all strike me as an intelligent bunch, so I figured I would come here for some advice. For the past couple of months I have been getting to know a certain woman. She calls me for no reason, and we talk about a lot of goofy unimportant stuff. I just basically tell her about my past experiences and she mainly does too. I asked her to go out on a date, which I am taking her to dinner on Saturday night. I don't know how to tell if she is really into me, or if she is just looking forward to a free meal. She smiles a lot and every now and then touches me on the arm. I can't wait untill saturday because then, I will be alone with her. No one to distract us, no one that needs waited on etc. What are some things that I should look for? I am a good person, and am very much in touch with reality. I know that her liking me is a very good possibility, but realistically, I am not sure it is possible. Any info on what to look or not to talk about would be great. Thanks

Answer 1

hi...no sex on first date even though she definitely likes u. i dun think i'll smile and talk so much to someone just cos i want a free meal. i bet she can well afford one herself.

you may touch her hair or elbow or guide her along when u r crossing the road. look into her eyes when u talk to her and hold her graze as well.

i feel that if u r really into this girl, u should show it and not to worry so much about what she thinks.

just remember your mission - its to make the night unforgettable and great for both of you. its not about what she thinks / what you think - its about both of u enjoying the same moment.

good luck!

Answer 2

well , maybe this is not a intelligent answer but any help will do:

A smile is very important, eye contact , sometimes a conversation can be very difficult to interpret a message that she can be sending for you........

First, try to have a really good time with her, dont think if she really likes you or not while eating, the only thing you can be really assure of what she wants is to tell her that you have some feelings for her, but you really not sure where she is(if she likes you or not)....We always have to take risks, if you really want to know, be confident, being nervous doesn't count because is normal and very cool to open up to a person and say: hey i have a crush on you and I have no ashame by saying it, but(you asked to her) what about you???

Answer 3

Okay man be confident. Don't be insecure it's not worth worrying about . If she wanted a free meal from you she wouldn't waste a Saturday night on it. I say she likes you. But if your still worried she's using you show up early to dinner talk to the waitperson and tell them you want seperate checks (without your date being there). If all goes well pay for it yourself before they bring the cheque to the table. If you think she's using you let the seperate cheuqes come you got nothing to worry about. She likes you don't blow it.

Answer 4

Signs of not liking you, not talking very much, not looking you in the eyes, she has wondering eyes, she eats and wants to go home for some reason, don't smile, don't laugh, don't pay attention, keeping distance, don't want to be touched,
Hope this helps, Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

you should do some research on non-verbal communicatin.stuff like her licking her lip, touching the wine glass. She couls lean forward and look you in the eyes. the her verbal communication. the words she keeps on using could mean a lot

Answer 6

From what you say, I'm pretty sure you have her hook, line and sinker. When Saturday comes just do what you always do and you'll be fine.

Answer 7

just ask her how she feels.. and if u really feel that she might be lying then ask her questions related to 'you guys as a couple' kinda thing and see how she reacts or answers..

Answer 8

She likes you already. Just relax and have fun.

Answer 9

tell her you giver!