we had some problems, i had been bad to him and insulted him a lot many times and been rude to him,but our family have arranged for our marriage now,he spoke to me once and put fowrad his demands and also said that that he needs time to come back to me.he does not talk to me, should i make the first move and go ahead and talk to him or should i give him some space,i love him a lot and feel like talking to him but have to keep quit when he is around dont know what to do suggest something
2007-02-14 19:51:04 · 7 answers · asked by eme7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you were mean, so you should apologize.
2007-02-14 19:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks alot about how the two of you could really share a future if you behaved in that way, even before getting married?!!!!
Put yourself into his shoe and think of how would your feelings be for him if he did to you what you had done to him?!! Got it? Thats is what he is in now!
He is weighin pros and cons and therefore not sure of getting into marriage relationship with you, at the moment. You need to convince him otherwise and assure him that you acted stupidly and that you will be more considerate and loving person. Assure him, with words, actions and deeds, that you mean what you say and say what you mean.
Do not expect a quick positive reply, but that will be the right course to take.
All the best!/
2007-02-14 20:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriage,i pity u cuz yo lives will b horrible,find a way of not making this happen,u love him & he doesnt, I dont want u asking us how to leave him 2 years from now.
2007-02-14 20:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry him unless you and him have gotten some couples counselling together to fix what's wrong with your relationship. Believe me, you insulting him and him "putting forward his demands" is not going to make for a blissful life together.
2007-02-14 19:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to apologize and quickly because you were extremely immature and he will get back at you when your married, thats what happens with arranged marriages if i were you i would run away noone is going to decide my life for me
2007-02-14 19:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is there on your description. give him some time and APOLOGIZE for your rudeness. this is somehow a matter of miscommunication. if you really love him, try talking to him after giving him some time. contact me sometime, i would be glad to help.
2007-02-14 20:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by kristian melvin l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-14 20:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋