we met with group of friends,he says he wants to meet again, as he needs some time with me, i told him if we are going to meet again i should inform my parents that i like him, but he said wait for a while dont tell them now. i said what if your family doesnt agree afterwards, he said they are not like this and they have left decision on me.he said he will take me to meet his aunt also, he says if i am not comfortable meeting him alone we can meet with group of friends. i know he really likes me, and he wants to meet more so that we can better understand each other, but not letting me informing parnets , does that mean he is playing?? or what i m confused?? what is he upto?
2007-02-14 19:46:57 · 8 answers · asked by Ashiii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he's trying to not let it get too serious too quickly. If you start going public with the relationship, I suspect that the parents will start to have expectations that this is going to work. This could make it awkward if things are not working out. How would everyone save face?
2007-02-14 19:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You met him only once and only a week ago. Involving parents and relatives on both sides at this time would be way too soon. He is not playing; he is being reasonable. He is up to meeting you more so that both of you can better understand each other, just like you said. If you are interested in continuing the communication with him, follow his suggestion and meet again in a group of friends.
2007-02-15 03:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would like to get to know you better before getting a bunch of relatives involved. You may want to insist that you go out in a group a few more times. You will still be able to converse and see what the other is like. Only do what you're comfortable with.
2007-02-15 03:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by Loki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have said is soooo confusing. I don't undestand the necessity to tell your parents. Parents ony come in when you need to get serious. If you have just met him you need to know him first.
If you have a bad feeling about himm then don't try to find excuses to avoid him.Go with the flow
2007-02-15 03:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've met once and you already want to tell your parents? You don't know enough about him at this time to know if he is even dating material.
I'd say hang out with him around friends more before you make that decision. What if he is the biggest jerk?
2007-02-15 03:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by Beam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No good. Just tell your parents. He is hiding something and just wants to get him some before your parents find out.
2007-02-15 03:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn´t know anyone would still thinking like that ...
Are you living in medieval times?
Good luck.
2007-02-15 04:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by El perro verde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHATS THE PROBLEM YOUR A SLUT PUPPY THE MEET HIM B I T C H YOU DONT NEED TO ASK THIS QUERSTION HERL YOU NEEDA GO FO SOM MAMMY SMACKIN BISSITTS
2007-02-15 03:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋