Its about two weeks since my ex girlfriend said she left me to be with another guy so far she never tells me anything about who this guy is. we have been together for a year and half and was planning to get married, well her email stated she was sorry for everything, she said its not me but her that dont know what she want and she is looking for someone who can show her that. she thank me for being there for her and doing alot for her even though she didn't believe a guy would do that much for her, then at the end of the email she said i and her knew it was not working between us because i had my family back home because im in germany and she lives here and im here till i decide to go. she think i was going to leave her here alone well thats what last part of the email said you will go home and i will have nobody and i will be alone. help me out with this because she wrote this email when i told her i got to go home and clear my mind.
2007-02-14 19:41:56 · 6 answers · asked by Romaine B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all, why are you two sending email messages? can't you two talk, you know, live? from what i have read on your description, this is a simple case of misunderstanding. try talking to her, listen to what she has to say then explain yourself. explain why you sent her that email in the first place. you can contact me, i would be delighted to help in any way i can.
2007-02-14 19:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by kristian melvin l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has ended the relationship with you. She is not obligated to tell you anything about the new guy in her life.
The reason why she decided to take this step is that she obviously felt your relationship had no future. During the year and a half you've been together, you've probably never dropped any hints that you see the relationship going anywhere beyond the date when you will leave to go back to your own country. I think she is wise to think of the future and not waste any more time on someone who will be out of her life for good at some point, possibly soon?
2007-02-14 19:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ignore her. I mean, if she doesn't trust that you will stay for her, then there is nothing you can do to make her see the light. Also, if she has that little faith in you and your relationship, she really isn't clear-headed, secure, or mature enough to be married! You should be thankful you found out all this now instead of later when it would be too late! Take advantage of this opportunity that has been handed to you and make the most of it. You have the chance to stand up for yourself. You deserve to be respected and loved, and by someone who gives you those things. Don't settle for something just because you are comfortable with it...it will only come back to haunt you...and it would probably be to late.
2007-02-14 19:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by buebla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she left you because she thought you were going home and were going to leave her, she probably thought you were never coming back. and thats why she broke up with you i suggest you look for her and explain to her that your not leaving her and that you are coming back... i think shes just scared to get hurt.
2007-02-14 19:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her why she wants to tel you this now.Cut the string forget about it will only get worse.Ask her if she still has feelings for you.
2007-02-14 19:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by :'I 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's selfish, move on.
2007-02-14 19:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by ∂ίятУ ℓάυиḋгÿ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋