Something had been going on between me and this guy for about seven months before we finally slept together. We'd stopped talking at 1 point after he took me on a date & then didn't invite me to his new years party, but I forgave him because he was trying to end things w/ this girl & he thought it would be awkward if i was there. He broke things off w/ her on new years & we started talking again. About 3 weeks ago he assured me he wasn't pushing me away and that he liked me. We finally slept together but afterwards all he did was put his performance down and say he was sorry it was disapointing for our 1st time.It's been a week & has ignored my phone calls, I know he's embarrsed & i wasn't expecting a relationship but he shouldn't treat me like that. He's also started talking to this other girl.Do I never call him again or call him and tell him that he shouldn't treat me like that & that he is an a**whole. Which is more effective in making him feel bad and makes me come out ahead?
2007-02-14 18:14:20 · 18 answers · asked by Jessica C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he just played his game on you and you fell for it. thats it, he got what he wanted and theres nothing you can do to make him feel bad.
2007-02-14 18:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by JZX 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can come out ahead is to leave him alone. You can't make him "feel" bad because he doesn't care about you. You'll only be making a fool of yourself if you call him again. Chances are he won't even answer the phone when you call anyway, so he'll be left thinking you are still chasing after him. In the future, pay attention to the signs, listen to his actions and his words, if the two don't match then he's lying. Actions don't lie and his were saying he's not interested all along.
2007-02-14 18:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jay K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he nevertheless is performing outstanding in the direction of you after all of that, then that's secure to assert that you ought to assert sorry on your habit. Unfriending someone because they don't experience an identical way about you is incorrect. and that i have commited that crime very few weeks in the past so i visit narrate on your tale. the in elementary words ingredient that's different is that I apologized and the guy not in any respect replied to me. yet i come across myself pleased with that because he wasn't what i replaced into searching for in a friendship or a boyfriend / that's sturdy to draw close that i'm no longer on my own although and that i wish you success (:
2016-11-03 12:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is tough and I feel for you, but don't use your hurt feelings to justify being childish. There is always the risk of rejection (for whtever reason - doesn't matter) when you get naked with someone. And there's usually a lot of stuff going on beneath the surface. He could have issues - or maybe you both do. Just forgive him and move on. We all have our problems to deal with - why make it harder for him to deal with his?
2007-02-14 19:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he slept wit you to prove that he really likes you so you won't feel like he's pushing you away or maybe he just wanted "some." but anyways, you should definitely give him a piece of your mind. trust me...you'll feel much better in the end. if he doesn't apologize and change his ways, then i suggest move on with someone who isn't an azz hole!!!
2007-02-14 18:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he thinks he did poor in bed then hes totally embaressed i dont think hes trying to hurt you but on the other hand he might have played you ask around find out if he is with that other girl or some one else if not then he just embaressed
2007-02-14 18:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by vamp_19772001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's not an asshole...you're just desperate and that desperation makes you easy. You hadn't been going out with this guy long...yeah you "talked" for a few monhts but he was seeing someone else. And basically right after you went out with him you were jumping into bed together. You ALLOWED yourself to be used and now you want to call HIM an asshole? He isn't the one to blame for YOUR bad judgement.
2007-02-14 18:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Pretty mad, huh? Understandably so. Still I don't think revenge will ever put you ahead.
But if you really wanna hurt him just tell everyone that will listen that not only did he completely use you... but he was horrible and lacked... ::clears throat:: potency... down stairs...
2007-02-14 18:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by Doug B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kinda a bad thing to do but if you want to trash him talk to the other girl.Flirt with another guy.The effective way diss him in frot of a crowd that will mostly kill his popularity with girls and friends.
2007-02-14 18:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by :'I 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about keeping ur mouth shut and move on coz anything u say will not change what happened and learn not to fall for crap like that again
2007-02-14 18:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by vakere2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Was his performance bad that night? if it was then he didn't do anything deliberately to hurt you he is just embarrassed. Why don't you email me and lets chat some about it my email is miked452001@yahoo.com
2007-02-14 18:19:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋