2007-02-14 17:59:40 · 29 answers · asked by rainbow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You mean "what is the right age for getting married?" :)
Anyway, I think that by the time someone is between 22 and 24, they're sometimes mature enough to handle all the mental, emotional and financial responsibilities of marriage. Not always, however. I certainly wasn't at that young age. *chuckle*
As for an age that's "too old", I don't think there is one. A lot of people these days are getting married for the first time in their 30s, and I expect to be one of them. And then there's the case of widows and widowers finding love again, long after their spouse has died. One of my Great-Aunts married for the second time in her 80s! :)
2007-02-14 18:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by scary shari 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is a right age to get married. I do, however, feel that you should "deserve" it. I mean, I have been with the same guy for seven years. We moved to California together and live in a studio apartment and are poor as hell. But we are not going to get married until we deserve it. We are paying our student loans and our rent and that's about all we have money for. But when we get married, we want to be able to support each other. That is what marraige is all about. SUPPORTING each other. When you are married, you are no longer two, but one. You are still individuals, but you are part of another person, and another life. Compromise and communication are keys and trust and respect are as well. You need to be able to mentally support that person as well as financially support that person.
2007-02-15 02:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by buebla 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Has not to do with age it has to do with maturity and communication. Can you talk about what ever bothers both of you and not get mad. If some one says something about the other do you wait till you ask your lover or jump to conclusions. What age is right changes with the country and maturity of the people.
2007-02-15 02:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
between 24 and 29..
just that u graduate from university, get some money...then save some money to make sure u hav the best wedding with a honeymoon, and to b able to buy a house..then think about marriage
2007-02-15 02:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by FEK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well a very very wise lady once explained to me that young marriages are likely doomed because people change so drastically between the teen years and mid twenty's and often 'grow' in different areas and one day discover that's a stranger in their bed.
2007-02-15 02:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no exact right age, but it's an ingenious idea to wait for the mind and the heart to mature first, cause they can play nasty tricks on you...and that usually happens after 25...or is it 85? I forget...;)
2007-02-15 02:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by Dennis K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Somewhere in your 30's that way you have the running out of you ,and the foolishness and the thinking you no it all.And if you are a woman you still have time to start a family.
PS. People stop being so mean she or he said it the way she or he wanted to say it. I understood what was said and so did you.
2007-02-15 02:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The right age is when you felt like you have done everything you wanted to do single, you are not feeling pressured, rushed, trick, when you are good and ready you will know.
2007-02-15 02:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mofabolist 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think its 30 years old at least because of the high percentage of divorce now days. Young relationship rarely last. Its tough.
2007-02-15 02:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by Happiness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys between 25 to 30
Girls between 20 to 25
2007-02-15 02:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋