2007-02-14 17:54:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Moreover the real question is why would he want to. Secondly no, he shouldn't be having sex until marriage. If he cannot support himself indepently then he cannot support potential children, which believe it or not happen on birth control with a condom.
2007-02-14 19:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by tylw85 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Parents rules of what they allow or not allow under their roof.
Myself, I am allowed to as an 21 year old adult who will be getting married.
Not many young adults will discuss such issue's with their parents; however, I am the small percent that did.
My mom said she didn't like it (I am the youngest and it was hard for her to "let me go"). Which was a lot of the reason why she didn't like it. She knows I know consequences and knows I am educated.
I am respectful about it and so is my fiance.
I do know a lot of parents who don't allow it and the young adults still do it anyways secretly. I think doing it secretly is disrespectful and parents have the right to say none or get out.
2007-02-15 06:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that is his PARENTS home they are the ones paying the mortgage they have every right to set the rules. If the 18 year old wants to have sex at home let the 18 year old get a job and move out to his own place.
2007-02-14 19:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he lives at home and that's one of his parents' rules, that's just something he has to deal with, or move out of the house. It can be done of course, but if he gets caught he, and possibly the girl, will have to face their reaction.
I don't know that any parent has ever been successful, at least not in the past few decades where parents tend to be absent most of the time, at enforcing a no-sex-in-the-house rule.
2007-02-14 18:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by desiderio 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the thought seems disrespectful to the parents but I would think it would be okay for him to have sex at home. If parents tell their children not to do it at home, they will just do it somewhere else. (I don't like that idea...)
When my child eventually becomes sexually active, I would be happier knowing it is done in our house rather than in the back of a car, a park restroom or somewhere worse.
2007-02-14 19:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hell No! I have an 18 year old and he is my 3 oldest of five. The rules are easy no sex in my home unless you are married. It is my house. I have set my rules. I understand that he is older, but he still lives in my home!
2007-02-14 18:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by James S 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
if i was 18 id say yes lol but since im not and i have children now of my own i would have to say no its not right ,,,,,, unless he has his own part of the house to himself and pays rent then its like his own place but if your talking about going into his room and thats all that he can say is his then no it is so so wrong ,, he needs to get a hotel or move out or do it so the parents dont know lol
2007-02-14 18:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well I don't really know about being allowed but who really wants to have sex in their parents house???? Doesn't that creep you out a bit???
2007-02-14 18:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by avaadore82 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
uh, NO.
Is he married and his wife is also living at his parents home? Then and only then would my answer be yes.
The morals of the parents don't change simply because of the chronological age of the child.
2007-02-15 02:00:03 · answer #9 · answered by Andrew 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's worng to have sex when you're a teenage, wait till you're 20.... and he should not have sex in his parents house.... that is a disrespect...to them....
2007-02-15 02:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by *Cutie* 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋