I was on a date with an amazing girl it was our first but we were talking to eachother on phne for a long long time and we always talked about everything including S[-X.
It gradually went out of control and we ended up doing everything.
Since then she is a little reserved and silent and sort of away?
What could it be?
I didnt force anything actually when we were together she took off her dress all by herself and did everything as if she wanted to do it but now i am finding it hard to understand what went wrong???
2007-02-14 17:49:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's probably feeling a little regretful and/or ashamed. She may have just gotten caught up in the heat of the moment, it happens to the best of us. Give her time, if your date was as amazing as you say it was things will work out. Having sex too early can be future relationship DOA but not always...my current boyfriend and I got a little out of control as well, but we fell in love a week later and now we've been together close to a year. If it's meant to be it will work out, if it's not it won't--don't sweat it.
2007-02-14 17:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by justpeachee22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is within her and only her. Ask to met her again, go for a walk and have a heart to heart talk with her. Tell her how you think she is an amazing woman or young lady and how you would like to get to know her. Express how wonderful the intamate interaction was! Compliment her on some key points about her outer beauty as well as some of her attribtes that make her so amasing! Explain how you would like to start over and go on a real date with her!. Then kiss her really slow and gentle and look into her eyes ! Dont speak wait for her to answer.
Good luck!
2007-02-14 18:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well did things change? Are you still talking on the phone? Are you sure this chick isn't a hooker? Maybe she's afraid that another date will go the same way and she's not into this like you think she is. Did you forget to use 'precautions' to prevent pregnancy or disease? If you really like her.. See if she'll go out on date #2 and don't jump her bones. Try to get to know the 'in person' person. You don't give ages for you or her so hard to advise on this.
2007-02-14 18:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by ricketyoldbat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she may have lost control and now regrets what she did, and maybe thinks you will have a bad opinion of her... Or, it could be that she only wanted to fool around a little and now she is done with you (well, guys are like that so probably some girls are like that.) I would ask her in a nice way... How's this, "you know i really enjoy your company, i like talking to you (emphasize that) and i do have to admit i enjoyed what we did but now i am worried because you seem a little distant. Did something happen that you didn't feel OK with? 'cause I'd like to continue to see you and talk to you... "
2007-02-14 17:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jebbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if it become your first, at present it truly is so not uncomplicated to stay inclusive of your old flame, and is he's a playboy style, what's to say he wont go away you in case you 2 celebration. pass on, more than a number of fish in the sea and all of that. there are more than a number of adult males obtainable that would nicely be 1000x more beneficial efficient for you. i recognize that become harsh notwithstanding it is the actuality.
2016-11-28 04:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you turned her on to much she exploded now either A) you sucked in bed or B) now she feels like a slut and doesn't know what you think of her......if it isn't A) just remind her how great she was and would like to spend more time with her, but do not mention sex at all while you are telling her that..............
2007-02-14 17:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you didnt do anything wrong she did. i dont know how old you are, but one sure way to solve that kinda problem is keep it in ya pants until your married
2007-02-14 17:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she want to make love with u.. u didn't do anything wrong she did.. that u just first date doing that what about the rest....
2007-02-14 17:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Were you naked? maybe she wasn't attracted anymore.
2007-02-14 17:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by joel w 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋