well.....from what i can tell, a person's body language either makes them or breaks them.
most guys beat themselves because they don't realize what a dork they look like approaching a girl with absolutely no self worth or confidence.
and yes you do need that modicum of humility to balance the self esteem. if you are able, self confidence done graciously might work. i hope that i haven't babbled too much and that you get something out of it.
my good wishes are with you, carpe diem.
2007-02-14 17:51:21
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answered by ? 6
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Here is your conversation starter:
"Hi. I'm new here so I'm trying to meet some people. You seem like the friendly type, so I thought I would introduce myself. My name is _____."
Then she will tell you her name because she doesn't want to seem unfriendly.
"Nice to meet you, ______."
Then you have to plan ahead of time for some conversation topics. Ask her some questions about the school, if she knows her way around. Maybe ask how her teachers are or if there are any particular good/bad ones. You might ask about the classes she is taking and express some interest in the subjects.
Do not prolong the conversation to long. The goal here is to put yourself on her radar screen as an "interesting, charming guy". You can end the conversation by saying "It was great talking to you ______. How about we continue the conversation over lunch?"
If she says that she has other plans, then say "Cancel them. You can do that any time". Then she will either agree or suggest another day. If she tries to get away with "some other time", then come back and ask her "When?". Then you'll have your lunch date.
Now, notice that in all of this you are never coming out and saying something obvious like "I like you". Why? Because it makes you sound like a _wuss_. It gives her power over you and makes you less interesting. You don't want to come across sounding needy or like you are putting her above you. All you have to do is be friendly and sincere and casual, and this approach will give you the opportunity to get to know each other better.
If you cannot keep a halfway interesting conversation going with her, then confessing your true love for her is not going to do you one bit of good. Good luck, and be brave!
2007-02-15 02:00:13
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answered by Anonymous
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well guys he said school so his game isn't up to par but 2 things can help you talk to her and don't be shy. Also do not fall in the friend zone if you do you will likely never get out.....
2007-02-15 01:49:03
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answered by Dr. A- -hole 1
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Give it a bit more than a week. Just be her friend first, she might fall for you and admit it first. Give it a bit of time. Good luck
2007-02-15 01:44:46
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answered by Ari J 2
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You walk up to her and say I like you. How are you going to tell her how you like to get oral sex if you can't even say I like you. Grow up!
2007-02-15 01:42:00
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answered by Anonymous
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no need to tell her,show her(i mean prove it)
2007-02-15 01:49:13
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answered by sam 1
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with your mouth.
2007-02-15 01:42:17
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answered by daboss 4
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