If you dated someone for a while (almost a year) but then started college so said you needed some time off so you can concentrate....but still talk to the girl every day and you are about to drive 7 hours to visit her "as friends" even though you hate driving and you're broke....
a) do you still like the girl or maybe you just miss her
b) if she has sex with you even though you arent technically together will that make you think less of her
2007-02-14 17:32:19 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A) He still has feelings for you and he wants to see you. For a guy to drive 7 hours to see you, he has some pretty strong feelings.
B) Personally, I don't think any less of a woman that has sex without being in a relationship. Everyone has needs/desires that they like to fulfill. As long as there is honest communication, have at it.
Don't pay attention to the guys that answered before me. They obviously, have no idea how the male mind works.
2007-02-14 17:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
question a yes he still wants to be with you. he is probably just scared of what could happen so far apart. reassure him and let him know how much you miss him and want to try to make things work between you even with the space between you. it may not work but ifyou never try you will never know for sure.
question b. yes. well maybe, it depends on the relationship that you had and have. i cannot answer for sure but i can say that in most cases the answer would be yes. good luck i hope it all works out. and trust me go for it. go get your man.
2007-02-15 01:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by big_john_719 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants to concentrate on the college girls not studies. Honestly it sounds like he just wants to keep you around for a booty call when he's home. Would i think less of the girl? No, it takes two to tango lol so they say, so if they're willing to sleep with you and not worry about you thinking less of them it shouldn't be the other way around either.
2007-02-15 01:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is doing all that, i would have to say he is still major crushing on you and he is probly hoping for sex while being there, now the bad thing is if you do have sex that might make him think that this can happen aytime he does this but i honestly have to say that he has to be crushing on you somthing fierce.
2007-02-15 01:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by James B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) he still likes u, or he wants sex.
he probably wanted to see what was out there in college aka more girls... and maybe he hasnt found someone worth replacing u.
b) dont have sex with him. just dont do it unless he's commited, bc if u have sex with him and ur not in a relationship he'll think of u as a sexy buddy and he'll see no point in being in a relationship if he can just have the sex part with u.
2007-02-15 01:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by eMteMind 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i love someone, i won't give lame excuses like i need time to concentrate, those are just BS! Make time...and still u can concentrate on ur studies and have a gf...and if i like her, why wld i wanna break it off? I won't. And i won't have sex with a friend, i wld only make love to the one i love.
2007-02-15 01:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by DooGie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the backup chick. He is at college and has a new life. Don't you understand that? In college all guys get new gf's or friends with benefits.
2007-02-15 01:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,i think tht if i make a sex with u then i dosen't miss u(dnt feel bed)
until i dnt have another girl friend.ok i think u r very intresting person.if u wana talk with me this is my id"vrl_patel@yahoo.com" we make a gd friendship. if u r intersted? dnt think tht i m a bad boy but this is the true ans .
2007-02-15 01:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex equals Skank! "Making Love" means you're actually in Love. You can't do both. And there is a difference!
2007-02-15 01:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A) for sure. B) If he is truly in love with you he will not think less of you, but it most likely will complicate things in the end.
-NmD!
2007-02-15 01:39:42 · answer #10 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋