It has been five month since I knew this girl. I like her. Many days ago I knew that she has BF already. She said They are having a good relationship.. of course that crushing me.
But lives go on, doesnt it? I decided to reduce the intensity of our communication. I did it for me. I dont wanna be the one who hoping for something unreal.
the problem is she still contact me. Call me, chat with me. I know she did it just for a talk. Nothing more but I didnt enjoy it anymore. Cozz it made me hoping for her.
What should i do? ignore her?i dont want seem childest. But i think we cant be a friend?
2007-02-14 17:29:06 · 6 answers · asked by d_profesor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls do this all the time and it will kill you. You are the man in the box. To explain: she probably likes you but wants her current more, she may be afraid to leave the current and she may want a relationship with you. She sure as hell does not want you to get your own relatinoship because wants her possibilities open. You are not only on a string you are the man in the box. Its kind of like being invited on a date and she does not show up, when she finds out you did not show up either, she is furious. Get out of the box my friend.
2007-02-14 17:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by Correctlinguistics 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her, look you know I like you, and I can not continue to talk to you because I can not move on with this communication still occurring and that you hope the best for her and leave it at that. Move on, meet someone new, Life does go on and she is not the one for you.
2007-02-14 17:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by Hawaiisweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that is how you truly feel, then you shouldn't try to be with her. Being her friend & being there for her will help her to know how you really are. If you leave with your tail between your legs, shame on you, but do what you feel.
2007-02-14 17:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on, tell her that you dont want to be her friend
because it hurt to much to be that, and then leave it along.
2007-02-14 17:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, that u must be near her, dont show her ur feelings, this will puzzle her, and she will think more about u, and soon, she will know whom, she needs, u or him!!! I think, that it will be U!!!!
Good Luck!!!!!!
2007-02-14 17:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by Guly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-02-14 17:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by spayhappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋