There is a guy that I really like. We have made out and asked me on a date. I really really like him. And I want "us" to work. But I am not sure how he feels, I can talk to him but still he is kind of "unpredictable" since he has a reputation of breaking girls hearts. How can I get myself to "not get my hopes up" or should I show him my true feelings and fall for him. It is my risk, I know. But please share your knowledge and advice. thanks!!
2007-02-14 17:01:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to make sure that he is not just using and actually has feelings for you.
You need to be very careful..espcially since he has a reputation of being a heart breaker.
Just stay friends with him for now...and see how things go..but dont jump into anything yet.
Get to know him better..and try and figure out how he really feels about you..before you go admitting your feelings for him.
2007-02-14 17:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, you asked for my knowledge and advise. You say that you are not sure how he feels. He has a reputation of breaking hearts. And, you made out with him?????
What is wrong with this picture? He doesn't respect you. How can he want to make a commitment to you. Why can't you young girls understand that every other girl in town gives them self to these guys. Why should the guys want just one of you?
Be different. Respect yourself. You will find that a real man will want you for a keeper if you don't just fall into bed with him and everybody else.
OK my advise. Start over, respect your body, be different from all of the rest. Show the guy that you are interested in that you have class and falling for someone too soon just turns them off.
2007-02-15 01:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he is already famous as a play boy or a heart breaker .. hmm quite intersting aan .. but beside all these faults u love him .. thats meaningful and appreciateable .. anyways as far as your question i would like to advice you that take a bit of time .. not be in so hurry .. yeh it is possible that a heart breaker or a play boy will be a good husband and a great lover .. is once he fall in lve completely .. the pure love what you have in you heart .. so i m just saying that just relax and gave him some time to prove himself .. that he loves u .. and just watch over him that while he is in contact with you either he is still in contact with other girls or not .. and if you noticed changes in him then it will be a good sign and then you can choose him for you life partner .. :) have a great life .. but always remember .. always tortoise wins the Race . not the hare .. so just calm and relax
2007-02-15 01:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mr XXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even bother talking to him. He has a reputation like that for a reason, and lots of guys like to rack up "points" by having lots of girls falling for them then moving on. Some girls are like that too of course but either way they aren't worth the stuff you blow out of your nose. Move on and find a guy who understand loyalty and that you can trust not to hurt you. We're out there and looking just as hard for the right girl.
2007-02-15 01:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay now if you knoe regardless of what any one says your gonna fall head over heels for him heres a trick, act like him you. You know how guys can turn on that i dont care feeling you do the same except do it this way if u find yourself fallin for him and he breaks your heart, at the end of the relationship when u do see him act completely new like u see him and say wassup act like nothing ever happened as far as you know you dont care. Now ofcourse youre gonna probly cry in your on time but when ur around him you dont care just remember that.
2007-02-15 01:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like he likes you, and even so, think about..what if you two were together..how long do you think the relationship would last. where would it go etc.
and if the feeeling just feels right go for it.
any guy could be a heart breaker.
you hook up then break up hook up then break up.
if you really like him go for it. another risk is that you might have doubts if you guys have a chance. so try it out to see if it works.
if it doesn't no prob. move along.
2007-02-15 01:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by CAT. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋