Okay I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years now, and today is a bad day for me cause I was a victim of a violent rape. I really don't like to celebrate today, but even though I hate today, I am so upset cause my so called man didn't buy me anything for valentine's day instead he bought him a new car am I over reacting.
2007-02-14 17:01:46 · 10 answers · asked by OneSexyPeach 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st of all allow me to express my grief on your past miss fortune,
Now to the question@ hand
Over reacting Not at all, I believe if he has been your boyfriend for over 5 years that he should know better than that he could have at least bought you a rose or a small box of candy a card or for that fact drew you a picture on a piece of paper or even taken you out to eat, and picked up the car new tomorrow the day after Valentines day,
As we all know Valentine's Day is for Lovers, But he was showing you how much he loves himself after all there are those who love only themselves, which is in my opinion a prime example of selfishness, and neglect, and not to mention a person who drinks too much tea; Now I am sure you are asking yourself what kind of tea is he talking about and the answer is very simple "stupidity"
But over reacting? I don't think so
2007-02-14 17:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by MinO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 04:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait...what? He bought who a car? Himself?
Maybe he thinks that you don't like the day and does not want to remind you....Or perhaps he is self-absorbed and does not care about your feelings...
He can't read minds, so he does not know how much pain you are in, so get him a present, and then he will get the hint...
2007-02-14 17:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by diamond_moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are NOT overreacting. If he's been your boyfriend for over 5 weeks, much less 5 years, you're entitled to expect someting for Valentine's Day.
He's a selfish creep. you need to tell him how you feel.
2007-02-14 17:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you said you don't like to celebrate today...so he probably knows that so why would he try to get you something. Make up your mind. Do you want to celebrate today or not?
2007-02-14 17:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get some counseling. I am sure that you have told him that you don't like to celebrate and I am sure that he thinks it is no big deal.
Truly... go get some counseling. I am sorry that something so horrible happened to you! Honestly, and I am not trying ot be cold or mean but you need some help.
2007-02-14 17:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not overreacting. Just cuz you don't like today your boryfriend still should have got you something to show he cares . He shouldn't have be so selfish & got something for himself on this day. Sounds like he care more about himself.
2007-02-14 17:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by MaeSalgo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like the day then don't expect anything for the day. You are sending him mixed feelings confusing him and eventually you will drive him away even if he never leaves you.
2007-02-14 17:08:07 · answer #8 · answered by sdo3lg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just realizes that you don't like the holiday and thought it would be a good idea to treat it like any normal day and not bring up memories... i think you're overreacting.
2007-02-14 17:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by Barbara H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-02-14 17:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by g13player 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋