Is it ok to be annoyed by partner?

Question

Am I being a jerk?Im putting some ex. of why I get annoyed 1.Today I was rushing to go somewhere and hes taking his dear sweet time to walk
2.I tell him I have to talk to some work people on the phone and he comes to me and asks me if I talked to the Phone company.. Like DUDE I JUST TOLD U I TALKED TO PEOPLE FROM WORK..
3.He's always nagging about how he feels sad and lonely and he has noone...
I've told him he annoys the crap out of me.. But is it right to be annoyed at someone you love? Or am I being a big time jerk face?

Answer 1

Hi, I don't think you're a jerk but maybe you're being a tad too harsh with your partner.
In all relationships there are always things that one partner does that annoys/upsets/angers the other partner - its perfectly normal.
My partner and I have agreed from day one that if anything upsets us we TALK about it, believe me it really works, we're not perfect but we're extremely happy.
Shouting and using words like 'you annoy the crap out of me' won't solve anything.
Try to stay calm, TALK to your partner and LISTEN, I wish you success and happiness for the future
cheers Morsel

Answer 2

I gues being annoyed is something that needs 2 be controlled.Trully its there more especially if u guys a staying together. It sounds funny u know.. to LOVE someone hence get annoyed by the same... plis dont get annoyed control that...If he is taking his dear sweet time to walk... try to ignore that...dont say/ yell anything. Wait for him in the car on in the house and say...BABE See We got late 2 where we were supposed to be.Include him in this problem as well as yourself.. Dont be angry, dont pin point... and if u really LOVE him you wil let him know what u like so that u guys understand each other.... plis b patient... gud .....

Answer 3

Take deep breaths Mahkiel_K, slow down and count to 10 before you say anything to your partner. You seem a bit stressed and up for an argument.

You could also pinch the skin of the back of his arm with your nails, it's really sensitive there and friends/family won't be able to see the marks.

Answer 4

it is ok to be annoyed by ur partner cos u spend a lot of time with them. what is not ok is u letting this turn into anger and keeping all these feelings locked inside.
for me, when i get annoyed, i let my partner know it. we talk about it and we make up. communication is the key.

Answer 5

It is very normal to be annoyed...especially if you spend too much time together...I am the same way with my guy. I really can't tell you what to do to solve it because I'm trying to figure it out, but I can guarantee it's normal.
When you figure out what to do, let me know.

Answer 6

Perhaps he's just laid back, some people don't like to rush around. Perhaps you just both felt in a different mood on that day and just clashed, in all events it sounded like a bad day and everybody gets them and it sounds like your poor partner was in your firing line. Chill!

Answer 7

Part of life is being annoyed with people, you have though to continue to endure to express your feelings in a calming manner to overcome the annoyance.............continue to try.

Answer 8

be more patient do not snap so quickly

for me it's always, the more you spent time with a person..the more you get to know the person...and probably a bit too well.. it eventually results in the same feeling as yours.

Answer 9

I'm gathering that your a gay, and to be honest I have gay friends who ar so stressed about everything, Just relax man RELAX

Answer 10

your just stressed calm will return dont worry honey