this girl and I have been dating for a little less than a month I really like her and I really want to tell her I love her but I'm afraid it will make her mad and I don't want to ruin this.
2007-02-14 16:57:11 · 18 answers · asked by matman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's really hard to answer this question without knowing your girlfriend. From personal experience I would say it's not a bad thing. My boyfriend told me he loved me after only a month, he was the first to say it. I said it back about a month later. But I am a hopeless romantic and I really liked him so it didn't scare me away. We are still together, its been 3 1/2 years.
2007-02-14 17:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kendra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you really say that you love her after only knowing her for a month? Its a very big chance that you are in lust with her and think its love. Do you know the real meaning of love and how to tell the difference between lust and love? I think you need to take some time and think things over before telling her that you love her. Also, it could scare her away if you tell her this soon. Slow down.
2007-02-14 17:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u questioning ur love? =P do what u feel is right. it's only been a month. maybe u should wait a little longer. let her know u like her a lot. see how things go for a while. why do u have to ask urself when to say u love her. are u planning out what ur doing/saying when u're around her? wait for the right moment, wait and see if she feels the same
2007-02-14 17:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by boom56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are afraid to tell her, then try telling her that you care alot for her. She may appreciate the fact that you are being open & honest with her. Then when you have been together a while longer, tell her that you love her. If she says it back, tell her that you have loved her for a while, & that should make her smile. She will know that you were keeping her feelings in consideration, & she will know that you truly love her.
2007-02-14 17:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait. If you are still together at 4 months then you may really love her. It took me 4 months to tell me boyfriend and we've been together 6 years and are getting married. but when you finally do tell her, don't be alarmed if she doesn't say it back immediately...it took my boyfriend 2 more months to say it back to me. It will all happen in due time...if it is meant to happen :)
by the way, the phrase "I love you" is VERY strong...only say it if you TRULY mean it with all your heart!
Good luck!
2007-02-14 17:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Ceniccola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a month, have u known her for a month or dated her for a month. if u knew her well before hand tell her u love her, if you didnt wait a bit. the first time you make out is a good time to day it because then you can either pass it off as *the heat of the moment* if it backfires, or stick to it if its all cool
2007-02-14 17:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Matt! Hey, Bruh? I wanna offer that you go Old-School on this one? You're opening the Doors, for her. Showing her loads of respect. Giving her space. Being Sweet. Asking her opinions on things. And talking "with" her. Not "to" her. And respecting her values on Sex, Drugs, and Rock-n-Roll. Your Actions will say everything that's needed to say. Just be Her Man! She'll get the idea. Silence, can be very sexy, at these times. Luck to ya!
2007-02-14 17:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Chances are that you are infatuated at best with this girl. Wait until this honeymoon period in your relationship subsides a bit and you get the chance to really see her for who she is. Then tell her you love her next VDay!
2007-02-14 17:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by PAPlaya27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen.... do special things, look into her eye's and how her in those ways. and wait a bit longer before you say that. if you show deep intense feelings for her and she backs up (in her mannerism to you and things like that) then you know she don't want to hear it yet. or at all. don't get your feelings hurt man. take it slow. don't let nobody on here tell you to "just be honest". be honest to yourself and her.... some people not ready for it and will run before they have a chance to get to know that you are the one.
2007-02-14 17:03:53 · answer #9 · answered by lfis492aa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is toooooo early, wait, before u r sure of urself, wait another 5-6 months, if u feel the same, then tell, or may b it just comes frm her, all the best
2007-02-14 17:08:11 · answer #10 · answered by ria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋