act the same? becaue i have heard that most of the times people like someone becaue of the why they act. they can relate to them.and i have notice that the guys l have liked usually act like me but in a guy way.
2007-02-14 16:49:28 · 8 answers · asked by Female 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
On a certain level, men and women are the same, most especially if they share the same values and priorities. Compatibility has many factors and there is not one formula that assures this. Sometimes those who are exact opposites click almost instantly because they complement what is missing from the other. But sometimes, this can also be the reason for clashes---major clashes especially if they come from a totally different culture or religious beliefs. The key to succeeding in any kind of relationship---whether opposite sex or same sex is accepting wholeheartedly not only the best traits of one but more importantly his or her flaws. You learn as go, so the cliche goes. Just don't be afraid of liking anyone whom you see as very much like you, and be open to those who is different from you. Remember, you can relate to almost anyone if you keep your eyes and heart open.
2007-02-14 17:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by wenongayon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Acting the same and having commonalities are two very different things....... Check out the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus....." It's been out for so long - you should be able to get it for less than $5 or even at the library.....
Personality traits like being Outgoing or talkative or friendly is probably more of what you are referring to.
Good Luck
2007-02-15 00:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by VocalistGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's true, and it isn't.
People do have things in common. Couples do meet and "hit it off" or feel like they are on the "same plane."
On the other hand, I believe that guys are attracted to a woman that makes them feel like a man. Interpret that as you will, but keep it in mind. Trying to just be one of the guys will get you NOWHERE.
2007-02-15 00:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by tiger lou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i think males are jerks. and they're very stuck up and use people :] hahaah well in my county that's how they are =] there are some nice ones. sweet ones. girls are just girls....no we don't act the same. we all act differently. i don't think ppl like ppl for the way they act. i guess it depends how old u are and how shallow u are. i know alot of ppl who just go for looks. and i hate it but u can't change the way ppl think...but yea i just think everythone's different. why would males and females act the same? females alone don't act the same. males alone don't act the same. so ..why ask. everyone's different =]
2007-02-15 00:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by boom56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesn't sound unreasonable. It probably has some truth to it. I've noticed the same thing
2007-02-15 00:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true that the vast majority are either male or female.
2007-02-15 00:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not always true because opposites do attract. The relationships don't always work but they do attract.
2007-02-15 00:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Pseudonym 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we all hummun being so that was right ,but it also depends on the age.
2007-02-15 00:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by live4hoping 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋