Open doors. Pay all bills and take care of our needs without us asking. Really would like to hear from the men on this subject.
2007-02-14 16:38:29 · 16 answers · asked by Mofabolist 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To be honest, there are some women who like to be independent and feel like we're babying them by doing those things you mentioned.
I can say that I was raised to be very respectful of women, so I always open doors for my dates, pay for dinner, walk them to their front door, etc. However, I've had experiences where women have actually broken up with me for being too gentlemanly. It's a catch 22 and so I guess some guys figure, "to hell with being nice."
Plus, there's always that whole perception that women like jerks and "bad boys", so all things considered, guys aren't entirely to blame.
2007-02-14 16:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by kloffolk 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-24 01:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women wanted equality so we give it to you. Blame womens liberation if you will. If man and woman are equals, then why should we open the door for you? Women are just as capable of opening it as men are.
I think it is funny that you say pay all the bills and take care of our needs. Well do you work? Take care of your own needs.
Complain because the world isn't fair to woman and it changes to be more equal. Then you complain because it is equal and man don't do the little things anymore.
I think it has a lot to do with this. More so I think it has to do with that it is so easy to have sexual encounters with women that we don't have to do the little things anymore. We get it anyways. It is basically your own fault. Like to talk more on it, you know my IM.
2007-02-14 16:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by sdo3lg 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Women's fight for equality (the right to vote, the right to be treat as a person with intellect instead of a doll, the demand for equal pay for equal work) has nothing to do with it. There are men that aren't afraid to pay the bill and care about women's welfare. But there are also guys who aren't really willing to pay and step up.
2007-02-14 17:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by bleu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because girls nag to much and when a guy does this he doesnt get anything in return only the expectation to always be this model gentlemen and pay the bills to his cash is gone. And no matter what mood the guy is in if this becomes routine and the guy slios once he gets hell. most women are like that but if the women proves she isnt always expeceting the guy to do all these things and understands that it is a privelage they will experience more chivalry but since most women are not like that chivalry is dying and it is the womens fault
2007-02-14 16:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by zb83b 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Because the ladies let them get away w it. Or in all fairness, maybe they did not see their dads treat their moms nicely. Maybe they never even had a dad. If a guy loves you, he will try hard to make you happy. Sometimes you just need to educate him a little.
2007-02-14 16:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by tiger lou 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I will tell you why they do not do this...because we allow them not too. We need to get back to having them open doors and pay for dinner and all by telling them upfront that you like the good old fashion way of dating not the new modern way that alot of people seem to do now. I see couples who Go together so to speak and really it seems to me no one really dates anymore...to me dating is a fun thing that i would enjoy doing not just getting together but all the fun things that lead up to it.
2007-02-14 16:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It is hard for a man to find women today that are worthy of this type of attention. A woman will complain a man has lost his code of conduct while not understanding she has lost her own.
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2007-02-14 17:02:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
There's men out there that do that; you're just not meeting them. There will always be impolite men/women, and sadly I think they make up the majority. Good luck in your searchings. Maybe one day you'll meet one.
2007-02-14 16:41:50 · answer #9 · answered by That Guy! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i got an answer for you
plenty of guys try this be nice and treat her great chivalry crap but what happens is girlw want to be independent and get pissed at us for trying. so guys have pretty much givin up on it because more often than not girls get offended and mad at you for doing that.
from personal experiance
i was with one girl at one point and tried to be like that and she hated it and got mad at me because she wanted to be equal and not be treated like she wasnt able to do things on her own. (although that was not the case). and we split up and because of that i didnt do that for the next girl and she wanted it and got mad at me. so iom just sticking to not doing all that because girls cant make up their minds.
i believe that girls are equal to guys in every aspect (exept our genitals are longer ha ha ha ha ha) and dont need to be pampered exept for special occasions (such as birthdays or anaversarys and what not)
so in my opinion
we are all sick and tired of being told that we cant be chivalrous one moment and then being told we are supposed to be another. that is why women are evil but without them men would be nowhere
2007-02-14 16:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋