2007-02-14 16:17:12 · 14 answers · asked by bren 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
A "Bridal Shower" is usually taken care of by the Maid (or Matron- if married) of Honor.
2007-02-14 16:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by teashy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person hosting the shower is the person who pays for it. Traditionally the bridesmaids throw the shower, but really anyone can do it.
When I got married my Matron of Honor gave me a shower as well as my Mother in Law (why she had to give me a seperate shower is beyond me). My co-workers also gave me a shower although I wasn't expecting one from them.
FYI- Traditionally the bride's family ISN'T supposed to host the shower. In "olden days" it was considered greedy for the family of the bride to "ask" for gifts so showers were always hosted by a friend or non relative.
2007-02-14 18:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by Just Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. It is usually paid for by the maid/matron of honor, who is in charge of organizing the event.
I hosted a shower once and the bride's mother-in-law (to-be) offered to pitch in and pay for some of it, and other bridesmaids were also very generous in offering to help with the costs. I think that's the best way to go, especially when there are many bridesmaids and many guests. It's nice to have someone else helping you organize everything and pitching in on the costs (which can be very expensive!)
2007-02-14 16:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by Amy K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, it's the maid or matron of honor.
It's not unusual for relatives of the bride or co-workers to host showers too. Whoever hosts the shower (organizes it and sends invitations) is the one who foots the bill.
2007-02-14 16:26:23 · answer #4 · answered by Beni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bridal party with the maid/matron of honor picking up the larger part of the tab. However, just do what can be afforded and explain the situation, if people can't understand it is just sad.
Money should not be a factor.
Try having a small gathering at the house if it is a money issue, wine, cheese, etc.
If money is not an issue then do what u want....
2007-02-14 16:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by It's been awhile 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That depends on who throws the shower. Traditionally it's the family and friends of the bride, especially the brides maids and more especially the maid of honor. It is a way of honoring the bride.
2007-02-14 16:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its usaully the maid of honor and then she would go and decide who she wants to help her which is usually the bridesmaids or the brides side of the family but the bottom line is that the Maid of Honor plans/controls and pays for everything.
2007-02-15 01:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by Yari 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Usually the Maid of Honor
2007-02-14 17:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by *Riley* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those who are hosting the wedding shower. In our family, and in our circle of friends, it usually is the mother, mother-in-law, -- and family members would contribute food - dainties, for example.
2007-02-15 00:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person throwing the shower. (And that is not usually an immediate relative).
2007-02-18 09:35:56 · answer #10 · answered by cat14675 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋