Lately, I have been really down, crying at everything, moody, alot of the same symptoms(sp) I had a couple of years ago when I was depressed. My baby isn't even here yet. I still love my baby and my other children. It's everyone else. Is this normal? Is it just more hormones? Can anyone relate, and if so, what did you do about it?
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2007-02-14 16:07:04 · 10 answers · asked by Thia K 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Perfectly normal. Your hormones are all over the place right now.
If you experienced depression while pregnant, you may experience it post partum as well. After you have the baby you will be faced with hormone fluctuations, the emotions of being a new mom again, serious sleep deprivation, and a feeling of being overwhelmed at times. It all combines to make for a very difficult period. It would be best to anticipate and prepare for it ahead of time... talk to your doctor about treatment and get a support system established before the baby arrives (ie. ask a friend/relative to help out after the baby arrives and make sure your partner/husband knows what to expect).
Best of luck...
2007-02-14 16:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was reading "what to expect when you're expecting", and it answered almost this exact question. The answer was that it was perfectly normal, that you have a lot of hormone changes going on right now, much like you do after pregnancy, and while technically it isn't post-partum since that means after birth, it can be very similar and just as real.
I know how you feel, because I'm the same way. I've become a big crier, and all I want to do is lay on my couch. What I'm doing to cheer myself up is...first of all, I just quit a job that I HATED...it was so stressful and didn't pay nearly enough for what was asked of me, and they weren't willing to work with my pregnancy...so I just quit, figured I'd take some of my stress off. I guess what you could do in that vein is get rid of some responsibility, like a chore, so you have more time for some things you do enjoy. Second I'm treating myself well, by eating yummy but healthy foods and just enjoying simple things on my own, like going for walks in pretty neighborhoods.
I hope I helped a little!
2007-02-14 16:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by grayhare 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had the same feelings I even wanted to have an abortion the day before my son was due. I believe it is normal everything is going to make you cry because of your hormones and your feelings. I didn't do anything about it but doing my favorite things like going out with my friends and being happy. If that doesn't work just relax and rest.
2007-02-14 16:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by tiffanymoss03 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be depression (though it wouldn't technically qualify as postpartum since you're still partum {is that a word?}). To qualify as clinical depression the symptoms would have to be present for at least six months. I think you're right to identify that it's probably related to hormones, and hopefully it will pass as quickly as it came.
2007-02-14 16:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by Heather Y 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal especially if you have had depression when not pregnant. I have to take Lexapro during my pregnancy (I'm 25 weeks) b/c mine is so bad. I think hormones play a part, but that's not all of it. It also has to do with the Seretonin levels in your brain.
2007-02-14 16:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is nomal, maybe you need to get busy getting stuff ready for the baby. Maybe that would help. Tell everyone to stay away, you just do not feel like putting up with them right now. Get out of the house, go to lunch, movie, something.
2007-02-14 16:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have had a problem with depression before you are probably having the problem again and its probably partially due to hormones. have you ever tried meds or counseling -it may help -maybe you just need some time to yourself to relax and unwind -i felt this way too when i was pregnant. try talking to your dr as well. they should be able to help. good luck and best wishes
2007-02-14 16:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by kd baby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depression is common thing, post partem, or just becasue. honestly i would say your feelings are just part of preganacy, but talk to your dr, and they may reccomend you go on medicine. since you have had depression before you are at a higher risk for ppd.
2007-02-14 16:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by jjsoccer_18 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pregnancy depression is much more common then post pardum. I have been depressed this time. the docv wants me on meds, but i refused
2007-02-14 16:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is impossible to have Post Partum BEFORE the baby is born...Post Partum MEANS AFTER PREGNANCY.
2007-02-14 16:10:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 7⤋