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i dont know what to do, ive always been I guess you could say "on top" at school... but this year is different. My best friend is like blonde has boobs and is all like bubbley. thats about all she has to offer...

and now all the sudden shes populaur and her head is about the size of a whale. I get sad about it, because idk. Im like the sidekick and i hate it. I know shallow, right ?

How do i get back up, or at least deal with this without being all jelouse and crap?

And its not like im not cool, because i am, really cool. BUT its still like im her sidekick even if i am cooler than her...
lol,
and im pretty and crap but idk, i kinda envy her sometimes you know?

hahah, howd you know i was brunette ?

Answer 1

I would do nothing because when you look back years later your maturity will be something of pride and not just a silly or immature
reaction .

Answer 2

every person is popular for their own reason. of course in the case of blondes (im brunette) ive found people expect them to be a certain way. like loose or something. sometimes being cool about what you look like and who you are is better than trying to be like everyone else. you could try to be blonde by dying your hair, but truly what good would that do you and think of the lovely up keep and damage to your hair. i enjoy being a brunette, and had a blonde friend in high school. she knew everyone yeah sometimes annoying when you are in a group she is friends with and you arent, but then there were a lot of times those people she was friends with i wouldnt have been near them on a personal choice if it hadnt been for her. it can open you up to knowing new people and dealing with new people so sit back. take a lesson in sociology while your at it. dealing with people well is a very good asset to have in life. it can give you a rewarding amount of friends later in life even if it doesnt help you a lot now. good luck

Answer 3

LOOKS DON'T MAKE PERSONALITY. It takes time to realize that. I am not sure how old you are, but in all reality, it does not get any better when you get older. Believe in yourself and maintain your individuality because no one can take that away from you. It's normal to envy others, but you never know what roads they must cross to get where they are currently at. Never be jealous, just observe. Take pride in yourself, as it will show. You don't have to be 'cool' to go forward in life. It will always be on your outlook and the way that you perceive situations. Have pride in yourself. You are the only one who can do that for you.

Answer 4

because you're for sure so desperate for an answer, i might somewhat have human beings spell wisely and use ideal grammar. So "Heya toddler hows you" might worry me purely as plenty. This grew to become into an particularly strange question, by utilizing the way.

Answer 5

Personally, I'm going for the brunette. Blondes act too blonde. Relax, every one has their day.

Answer 6

find a new hobby...this is a ridiculous problem. You're now second best, and it sounds like you'd kill your friend to be top dog again. You need to reconsider what's important in your life and devote your energy towards that. Quit making yourself depressed. I imagine your trying so hard to get people to "love" you again, that in fact your likely having the opposite affect.

Answer 7

Except your role. My best friend was insanely popular in hs and college, I just had to get over myself.

Answer 8

Its such a minor problem don't dwell, don't worry life only gets harder and this is pretty petty so just be happy and enjoy.

Answer 9

Jealousy and envy make a person less attractive. Remember that.

Answer 10

why did i have to click?