I met my boyfriend last year when I was a freshmen in college and there wasnt anywhere to sleep so we slept in the same bed in my dorm (didnt do anything, just sleep) before we decided to date. Then we dated for 6 months but he recently started school and said he had too much on his mind so we just take it easy for awhile. Well this weekend he's visiting me as friends and it is a 7 hour drive which he would never do so thats confusing and he said 'oh but make sure you get sheets cuz im sleeping on the couch'. We have had sex but that just confuses me cuz we are still close and if he could sleep in my bed before we dated why is he against it now? I was thinking maybe he would be tempted to want to have sex or something but I am perfectly fine with just sleeping since we are just friends now. Anyone know?
2007-02-14 15:36:05 · 2 answers · asked by Sarah 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i told him 'that doesnt make sense since you slept in the bed with me before we dated' and he said i dunno just cuz...
2007-02-14 15:42:46 · update #1
Did you tell him that he doesnt have to sleep on the couch.. Cause most of the times when a guy says Hey dont worry about it.. Ill sleep on the (Something) tonight.. Were expecting you to say.. hey, you can sleep in the bed with me...
2007-02-14 15:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by -Dr. D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes got a gf and dont want to be tempted?
2007-02-14 23:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by freemannichole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋