i'm in 8th grade and I really like this guy, but i'm not 100% sure he likes me. I flirt with him alot because he sits next to me in science but i want him to like me first before i say anything to him. I'm not shy, just feared that he will reject me because i like him so much and i'm afraid he will act different around me. please help, guys, don't give me some perverted answer please. I'm serious.
2007-02-14 14:49:26 · 6 answers · asked by roxxii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u can. but then when u do. is what ur doing really you.
if u like the guy, be urself, drop little hints that u like him,
that will make him make the first move. provided he feels the same.
generally. just be u, and he''ll like u for u and not for the person u became to obtain him.
cheers
2007-02-14 14:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by murderking88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read good stuff ere!!! :D----> the main thing u gotta do is just play it kool...dont act desperate for him to notice you....u have to pull urself together and be urself...trust me i know!!!
Don't show off - let him do that! While you think you may be "impressing" him, guys don't really appreciate when girls show them up!
Get to know his friends. Uncomfortable with that? Get your friends to go with you and have a big party!
Whenever he's around, make eye contact, but not so much that he gets freaked out. When he catches your eye, smile gently and turn back to what you were doing. If you sit and stare at him all day, this will have a negative effect.
For some, flirting comes naturally. If so, flaunt it! If not, start off by plain old introducing yourself. "Hi, I'm so and so," are the three best words you can use to start off with him.
Compliments are great- but make sure they're genuine. Saying, "Your hair is so cool" when it's the bowl-over-the-head cut may get a look that says, "You're such a fake!" Be real! Is he good at art? Tell him! "That's an awesome drawing, Tim!"
Get the idea in his head that you're interested, "Do you want to hang out after school?" "I hear some people are going to the mall later. Do you want to come with me?" Or even just sit at his table!
Be yourself. This is the number one biggest thing!
Attract attention to your mouth by licking your lips or biting something. This reminds him of kissing.
Always blow your nose (not in front of him!) and make sure your face doesn't have anything disgusting on it before approaching him. Look at yourself in the mirror or your reflection in the window if no mirror is around.
Don't forget to brush your teeth and always ask a friend if you have any food in them before seeing him.
GOOD LUCK :D:D
2007-02-14 22:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by NiceGirlRee;) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o wow 8th grade...ur way to young to make stupid little boys head over heels for u....if he cant see u like him or does and doesnt do anything about it....then first move on and second he's blind as a bat to not be able to see that someone likes him...adn he's passin up a great girl.
2007-02-14 22:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by (((uniquely.me))) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make a guy do anything unless you want him to resent you later!! your in 8th grade wait till you get to college to worrie about boys... they arent that cool and smell funny
2007-02-14 22:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by SARAH D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make a guy like u.but why dont you wait i mean ive only been at skool for like 3wks,you probably avent been at skool much longer..why dont you get to know him first.isnt being friends better than being nothing.that way if you wait he may grow to like you in the way that you want him to.remember you have a whole lifetime to find your soulmate.
2007-02-14 22:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by joanne b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seduce him
2007-02-14 22:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by US 4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋