well there's this guy i like and he says that he likes me. but we agreed that we both like hanging out with each other...but we don't want anything serious. but i found that i'm starting to like him more than that and i would be willing to go out with him exclusively. we're supposed to hang out tomorrow since we couldn't today. should i tell him?
another thing is that idk if i'm the only girl in his life right now...like i'm sure of it. i guess he's "playing the field" as i was. but now i want something more than hanging out and then making out.
advice?
2007-02-14 14:48:58 · 8 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if he likes you but does not want anything serious like you also. I know your liking him more and more because its sounding like a lot to me. There are things you should consider if you don't know if hes got other girls around, which if you fell for him he probably has more than one on the side. You have to find out what he is all about. Does he just want the sex, and then leave and not have to explain where or what hes doing. Or is he in the same place as you are in your life with considering more than just a good time. I think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel, that you may want more from him and if he has the slightest problems of wait a minute than you have to decide right there if you want you heart caught up in a guy that's not where you are in you life. He might be hot and everything you want in a man. But, in the end is it worth the pain he may give you? Find out what hes all about, how he spends his time. What makes life for him. If its about family, friends, school, and have a job that means something to him, it may be worth it in the end. Only you can decide, after all its your life.
2007-02-14 15:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to say something, b/c the longer you wait the more you'll be hurt in the end if in fact he does only want friendship and hanging out. The sooner you know that all he wants is that then you will be able to move past those feelings. But if you sit and wonder you will never know. Its best he know how you feel now, b/c who knows maybe he has the same feelings in return. You wont know till you sit him and tell him. Me and my husband started the same way, we hung out as friends for awhile and before I knew it I had these feelings for him and they only grew stronger low and behold he had the same in return and we only knew how each other felt once we sat down and talked about it. Hope you get your man girl, good luck!
2007-02-14 23:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him exactly how you feel. What a better way to start a good relationship if you are already friends. If he is ready you are both going to be a really nice couple. So good luck and if he is not there still be his friend show him that you are more mature and you can still be his friend even if he is not ready yet. But trust me he will!!
2007-02-14 22:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by Xica25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he is going to commit to you and let you be the only girl in his life -stop making out with him. you answered your own question -hes using you - have a little more self respect than that
2007-02-14 22:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how you feel.
It's the only way to sort this out
2007-02-14 22:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth theirs nothing bad on that. just follow your heart.
2007-02-14 22:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by jhon_doe20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him
2007-02-14 22:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him....
2007-02-14 22:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋