Ok well.... i know im going to get alot of sarcastic rude answers but maybe thats what i need.... i been with my gf for 2 years now... shes really honestly the only one i felt i could ever leave... i feel if she left shed take the part that keeps me alive everyday.. i knows sounds stupid but im serious.... well recently shes been wanting to sleep with one of my brothers.... shes liked him alot longer than me and i always told her id do whatever it takes to keep her happy... i mean if it could be a one time thing then yea id turn my head let it leave her system so we could get any obstacles outta the way but i feel it would go further than that.... uncontrollably... and i feel id end up in jail... cuz im ok one second then ready to grab a gun the next.... i dont wanna break up whatever happens that the last thing i want... i just dunno... any advice at all??
2007-02-14 14:48:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well maybe you arnt meant to be! It sound like she controls you not good at all so dump her!! your choice
2007-02-14 14:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by crazsportgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you can not change the way that she is. She is not ready for a committed relationship. You may be hearing from her that she loves you and that she wants some space but she still wants to be with you..but this is because she has you exactly where she wants you. She knows that she can treat you anyway and you would still do anything to keep her. She knows her security level even if she steps outside of the lines that are drawn. She does not care.
I know you do not want to hear this but you have to stand up and say enough! Why would you let anyone treat you as a doormat? If someone says they want to sleep with someone else..especially your brother then you need to let them go without the invitation of coming back. She does not respect you and she never will as long as you continue to let her do this to you. I wish you the best!
2007-02-14 22:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her the go-ahead. Seriously...
Chances are, if you sit her down and say "honey, i know this is something you really want to do , and if it means that much to you, then go ahead, i just want you happy" She'll not even want to do it anymore. People tend to always want the things they cant have, so maybe if she can have it, it wont be half as appealing. If she DOES go through with it, then maybe you should really consider whether or not shes as dedicated as you seem.. Best of luck !
2007-02-14 22:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not to be rude - although you said maybe thats what you need - grow a set of balls - the ***** wants to cheat - ditch her ***. you sound like a nice guy you deserve someone better than her. if she admits that she wants to cheat - whos to say she hasnt already? good luck
2007-02-14 23:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to cheat, let her! Since you are so accommodating, only let her be with guys that will buy her stuff so you don;t have to. I would rather be out of a girl in the long run instead of being out of pocket.
2007-02-14 22:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get counseling! or Leave her!
2007-02-14 22:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by My_90210_Life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lightbubl sub
2007-02-14 22:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋