when will it happen for me?

Question

i am almost 18 and i have never been kissed or have had a real boyfriend. everyone keeps asking me when i will get a boyfriend but i have no answer for them. my father's friends are always telling how pretty i am and if they were younger they would be at my door step every night. i know it will happen when i least expect it but i have been waiting for a long time. what to do?

Answer 1

the only thing you can do is be patient. the last thing you wana do is whore yourself out and it will only hurt your self-esteem. if you are looking to have a boyfriend, just try talking to people and being friendly. most guys can pick up on stuff like that and im sure youll get your kisses. but dont rush it, be patient and keep your eyes open...hope that helps

Answer 2

No matter how pretty we are it's okay to want to be the best we can. If it will make things better...get a new hairstyle, change your makeup or if you don't wear any, start. Gain a few pounds or lose some whichever you feel you need. Change some actions. Then after you've done all this...look in the mirror...tell yourself how proud you are of yourself, and if some guy comes into your life, thats great. If not that you are fine on your own.

Answer 3

First of all, keep yourself away from your father's friends. This is a recipe for disaster. Don't waste your time waiting. Keep yourself busy with things that keep you out and around good people. Make your personal growth your priority; make sure you feel absolutely fine without a partner. Then, when you do get into a relationship, you will be a healthy partner, not one with a lot of baggage.

Answer 4

usually the case is that guys are afraid to approach you because you are pretty. it was the same for me in high school. 4 years and i didn't get a bf until my senior year when suprisingly my best guy friend and i confessed our feelings for each other. but his excuse for not telling me earlier was that he didn't think i felt that way about him.
trust me, the right guy hasn't found you yet. if it doesn't happen in high school, wouldn't you rather find a diamond in the ruff rather than any old wooden nickel later on?
don't worry...guys in high school can be ignorant to the fact that perfection is staring them in the face.

but for as what to do...
enjoy these high school years while you can. hang out with your girls...they'll be there for you longer than any guy will. God will bring that special guy into your life when He thinks it's time.


good luck.

Answer 5

yes.
I feel your pain.
i've never had one either.
i'm 14.
everyone teases me and says i'm ugly.
while some people think i'm pretty and other stuff.
I wish sometimes i was one of those pop. cheerleaders that always get the guys and are on top of the pyramid, instead of holing all the weight of everyone else. y'know?
I would love to trade shoes with them any day.
just to know what itfeels like to be wanted by everyone, instead of being called a gay little emo kid that no one likes...
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Answer 6

Well I don't know if you're an outgoing person or not. Try to go places where you can meet new people and see what happens. Let them come to you and use your instinct. Everything comes with a price so timing is everything.

Answer 7

Just be patient... GOD is getting him ready . He will come into your life at the exact moment he is supposed to.
In the meantime, get the most out of your youth that you can as boyfriends and dating can suck the life right out of you !

Answer 8

keep waiting- u dont want to go searching because that makes u seem desprate. u need to be realistic- keep waiting because it will happen. u dont want to be caught dead in front of a cute guy going on a blind date wit a dork.

Answer 9

Go out with someone you trust and love at the first sight you saw them

Answer 10

Don't stress bout it - it will happen when you least expect it to.
Get out there and be yourself someone will surely take an interest