Me and my gf are both 16 we've been 3 months together, at the beggining of the relationship she used to call me alot, talk to me more often and would kiss me all the time. Now lately she's been complaining alot about kissing or me putting my arm around her, etc. Like when we almost had a month together, she told me that she had a crush on somebody else and she didnt know if she liked me anymore, then she signed off the IM and then the next morning she called and asked her wat was her decision and she said she wanted to stay with me, is it cuz she fell in love with me or cuz she feels sorry for me now, plz help me =(
2007-02-14 14:41:53 · 15 answers · asked by Marlon M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her go.
Girls can be so brutal.
Don't fall for her game.
She's stringing you along in case the other guy doesn't work out.
Now go find someone better!
2007-02-14 14:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by iwonder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to talk to her. three months is not alot of time to really get to know someone, so be a man about it. first off crushs are normal, in any relationship. so if she picked you, and is still being stand off ish . then other she needs some space or maybe you need to back off a little and be a friend first.
back off for a day or two, if you smother her she will run. after a couple of days come back sit down and have a talk ( as a friend) it could be that your being to pushy. maybe it doesn't have anything to do with you. she could be having a probulm at home.
but if you don't start as friends you will never have a strong relationship. and a word to the wise, with three months in a relationship nether of you are in love, love takes awhile.
2007-02-14 15:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by impactonland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and she are too young to even have a clue about a long term relationship. At 16 you two have a lot of growing up to do and you will both change a lot and she is bored with you. Continue to date her and date every other good looking chick you can get your hahnds on. So many women so little time.
2007-02-14 14:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by bestbet77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to probable detect a woman your individual age. thirteen and sixteen isn't that some distance aside yet the two certainly one of you're, or a minimum of ought to be, at very diverse ranges on your existence. She is growing to be up and determining who she is and who she ought to be. you're slightly older and slightly greater settled. She has to locate those products to choose what she likes and does not like. provide up attempting to administration her. this does not sound healthful. If I have been chatting along with her i might tell her she's too youthful to be in a dating and that she ought to purely spend some time doing her own concern figuring herself out. i do no longer recommend to be impolite or harsh with you yet she is slightly woman, purely particularly a teenager. those movements are all widely used for her...circulate away her by myself or discover ways to help her by means of those products....
2016-12-17 16:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is uncomfortable about pda then she may not be into you anymore (which is what it sounds like, actually telling you she has a thing for another guy). It is possible that the other guy rejected her advances and that is why she is back with you.
either way you shouldn't get so bent out of shape.. you are both teenagers and have a long path ahead of you either together or not you'll be just fine.
2007-02-14 14:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm terribly sorry. She can't play games with you. Right now she feels sorry for you, but likes somebody else. You know what? I know this is terribly hard for you, but you have to break up with her before you get her upset and yourself worried. You'll regret having each day a worry-fest about your girlfriend. Tell her that you're sorry, but you want her to be happy. That you don't want to hold her back.
This isn't completly her fault, but she should've admitted it earlier to face. Don't be angry with her, as it's a change of feelings. You haven't changed or done anything wrong. Trust me.
2007-02-14 14:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone falls in and out of love as times goes bye. First of all, I would give her maybe a little bit of room and of course, respect her. Do somethings for her to show her that you care for her and do love her. Always keep in mind that all great times take time. Hopefully everything will work out.
I hope the best for you.
2007-02-14 14:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by Raise The Bahr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably she really has a crush on someone else. Remember, you're both 16 which still makes you guys young therefore, she may want to ''surf the ocean''.
2007-02-14 15:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she might of felt sorry for you becuz sometimes it is hard to get through w/someone you've been for quite a while. But believe me if she is feeling sorry 4 u she aint worth it.
2007-02-14 14:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by Gigglz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its cause she feels sorry for you. Think about it , she'd be putting her life in danger if she was gonna stay with you but had the hots for some other guy. So i think shes with you cause she loves you.
2007-02-14 14:46:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋