Physically attractive, ethical, loyal, high morals, spiritual, fun, educated.
I ain't finding them in bars and clubs...
2007-02-14 14:35:04 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have had some success at school, but it is still largely hit or miss, online has been half and half mostly because I haven't been screening very well, though I have found someone that I am interested in.
Church might be a good idea, I have been meaning to go for a while. Now I just have to find out what religion is right for me.
2007-02-14 14:58:37 · update #1
Stop looking for her and when you least expect her, there she will be.
2007-02-14 14:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey how old are you my friend is 28
i have a friend like that the only thing is that she has 3 kids but she is financialy stable owns her own house (1/2 an acre) her oldest is 11 and the youngest is 4 and 6 but they are very educated and she also can't find a good guy not that she is looking for someone cause she's into her family and all but imagine i tell her to wait that the guy for her will come to her she dosen't have to look so like i said someone tells you to wait that she will come what if you two are meant for each other and your both waiting
the best thing to do is meet alot of girls but don't have a relationship with all of them get to know them go to church or something i met my guy at work 6 years ago and still toghether with 2 kids
look just yesterday i saw a episode of 60 minutes about finding the right girl the advice the expert said was ask every girl you know to introduce you to someone and you'll find the girl that's right for you and ask every single girl you know even your mom, aunt any girl
also she said exchange your number with 3 girls per day and by the end of the week you'll meet a nice girl too
well hope i can help good luck
also i have another friends who is like that but see you are looking in the wrong places cause she dosen't have time for that she is working all the time
2007-02-14 22:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by GIGGLES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a girl in a club what spiritual means and she'll be all like "Ghosts are neat." You don't need that bullsh*t.
I feel your pain. Maybe try the library? That'll at least take care of the ethical, moralistic, and educated traits. You don't want "too" spiritual (nobody wants the new age chick), but eventually somebody attractive'll walk in, and if she's attractive and in a library and it's not just to see her boyfriend or study... well, nobody's perfect. Just hope that she's fun. You can always read a good book while you wait.
2007-02-14 22:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by Trapdoor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bars and Clubs are NOT the place to find this kind of lady.
You will need to enroll in night courses at a local school or church groups or clubs in your community with an interest that you would want this lady to have. Maybe a photography club or travel or hiking, whatever your thing is. You will meet similar people.
Also, let others know you are available and looking to meet someone. You never knows who knows someone who is looking to meet someone like you !
2007-02-14 22:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by Smart Nurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bars and clubs isnt the best place to find some one special. most not all and no offense to the ppl that go to bars but most of them are after a one night stand or they arent ready for a steady relationship or to grow up. ur best bet would probably be church or some thing like that. maybe a coffee house if u have those where u live. sometimes u can find them in bars but not very often. good luck and put ur faith in God and he will send u the person u deserve.
2007-02-14 22:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by emilybailey1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure what djmarce is on, but not all girls are gold diggers.
You have to look through alot of rough to find your diamond, but when you do she will be a sparkler. Bars arent the place, but who knows you might meet someone thru someone else at a bar. Speed dating might be an option.
Spirtual doesnt necesarily mean religious, but into new age and new ideas. Maybe join a tarot class, or meditation?
2007-02-14 22:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by Suzieq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to a religious service you're interested in or online dating. Your chances are low in find one with these values in the club because the majority of people that are there like to play. I'm not saying it's not possible but try a new scene.
2007-02-14 22:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by LT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well assuming that these qualities also fit you then, places where you like to hang out and have fun. These places will draw women with the same interests that you have. Church, sporting events, any kind of group that you like, and these will be the places to find a person like this.
I know how you feel, it's hard to find a decent guy anymore.
2007-02-14 22:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by LuLu Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol they dont have time to be at the bars and if they are they arent looking they are with thier good friends they havent seen in forever because they work and go to school work out relax at home ALLLLL the time. You meet these girls at thier place of work or through friends.
So get to know people and they will introduce you.... I know it sucks. But we are waiting for a guy like that to come our way and we dont find them in bars either!!!
2007-02-14 22:40:23 · answer #9 · answered by SARAH D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to find that type of girl in bars or in clubs. Those types are usually found in church. Join a local youth group.
2007-02-14 22:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by Misty Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finland
2007-02-14 22:37:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋